Ria Anjani is a wife of Firmansyah father who is a policeman in charge of the punge banda aceh polsek, they live in a shop in Lampeneruet that the shopkeeper is from the parents of Mr. Firmansyah, they are a happy little family that is sanctioned by both their parents, even Mr. Firmansyah did not give permission to his wife to work although Ria Anjani's mother graduated from one of the health faculty in Banda Aceh. After 5 months of marriage their housekeeping still looks good well there is no problem what happened, also mother Ria anjani open business at home by making various brownies for her order, I also know good mother of Ria Anjani with a great desire to open a business which I think it is very good I only know Ria Anjani mother with a very short time because I have to return kesigli to continue my college. After 1 year they married, they also have not been in the gift of children and they went to the hospital to consult a doctor. It turns out doctors mendiaknosa that Ria anjani has cystic disease in her womb and fam in her breasts, they also consulted the doctor so that the disease healed.
The relationship between the two is still harmoniously harmonious it seems that even Ria Anjani's mother is still continuing her cake business as usual, because cake business more smoothly Ria Anjani mother would require a very large capital, then he took capital money in one of the cooperatives near he lived and he took the capital with a considerable amount of her husband also gave permission to him with the requirement of having to pay it himself every month. The capital he bought open electricity, refrigerator, mixer, and other cake ingredients after 3 months regularly pay the co-operative money and has a huge profit every month he also credits a motor matic beat by paying every month, in the 4 months he always pay his own bills. When one day her mother-in-law comes home and sees good housekeeping conditions and a very fulfilled economic condition, what is the thought of her mother-in-law so that Ria Anjani's mother is hated by her own father-in-law but her husband is very fond of her and does not respond to the response of her parents . After a year of marriage due to the busyness of both very crowded and inviting fatigue, small disputes occur but they can still control the emotions. 2 weeks later the bills of the cooperative came to their shophouses to collect, when her husband just came home from the office with tired face, irritated and angry bills cooperatives just run his duty to remind not to arrears in due to the fine, when the mother ria anjani is not at home a few hours later he came home her husband also called him to immediately give the bill this month, he just answered "yes".
A month later the same thing happened when her husband was tired of coming home from work and knowing that his wife owed too much without his knowledge that's where the big quarrel happened they did not control each other's emotions when it was also in-laws of ria anjani mothers came in a condition of extraordinary commotion and then his father-in- stopping the argument instead of blaming the daughter-in-law, and letting her go from home with nothing but the clothes she wore, her husband also did not forbid her because of unbearable emotions and heavy burdens that made her stress. All night this ria anjani sleeping in the cafeteria of one of the hospitals near her house no news from her husband.
the next day he came home to his brother's house in lamteh ulee kareng until one month her husband did not give news and did not send him home. When Ria Anjani's mother wanted to meet her husband, her husband even escaped in fear when he saw his wife, until now their households fall apart. Ria anjani keep doing its activity as usual make brownies order to pay its debts so much not only bills in co-operative only but debt debt elsewhere.
On the side of the father Firmansyah he wanted to divorce but because of this problem he can not act anything, because the lawsuit must be from the wife.
Now the problem between the father of Firmansyah and Ria Anjani is getting bigger, from the mother of Ria Anjani did not want to do the lawsuit if the debt of his debt is not paid because according to him the debt of debt is taken while still with Mr. Firmansyah and Mr. Firmansyah as her husband must be responsible in accounts payable, while Mr. Firmansyah did not want to pay because the lawsuit must be from the wife.
Now the problem between the father of Firmansyah and Ria Anjani is getting bigger, from the mother of Ria Anjani did not want to do the lawsuit if the debt of his debt is not paid because according to him the debt of debt is taken while still with Mr. Firmansyah and Mr. Firmansyah as her husband must be responsible in the debts of the debts, while the father Firmansyah not willing to pay because the debt is not a debt to the joint but the capital he himself sold and father Firmansyah already do not want to relate and run his life again with the mother Ria Anjani and family father Firmansyah not want Mr. Firmansyah back to the mother Ria Anjani again.
Solution.
In our opinion this kind of problem is very complicated should be in the case like this father Firmansyah and mother Ria Anjani have to solve this problem alone alone there should be no third parties to interfere in his affairs especially from parents. Then from Ria Anjani's mother had to apologize to Mr. Firmansyah because of his mistake that owes so much without his intention, then Ria Anjani's mother must realize that the debt is his debt can not directly ask her husband to pay for everything but to be able to help him pay off his debt debt, and from the father Firmansyah if you want the problem to be completed then Mr. Firmansyah should help Ria Anjani's mother to pay off the debt of her debts, in paying off her accounts payable they have to discuss their household relationship in order to return harmonious as usual when the right time and cold head. If one of them does not want to continue the household relationship again then the one must respect his decision, because if the relationship will be continued with hatred then the relationship will not be harmonious.