Siempre me preguntan lo mismo y tu porque estás sola como si estar sola fuera algo malo como si fuera un problema que hay que justificar y más enzima que viene con subtexto entiendes si eres linda si tienes tu vida o menos armada si trabajas si estás bien como que esperan que obvio ya deberías estar con alguien Pero la verdad es mucho más simple que todo eso no es que estés sola porque no me elijan estar sola porque elijo yo y ojo no es que esté buscando algo imposible no ya no es solo de apariencia ni de dinero ni de estatus claro que suma que alguien tenga estabilidad Pero eso no es todo e está edad uno ya entiende que lo realmente escaso es otra cosa Madures Emocional coherencia entre lo que se dice y lo que se hace alguien que no arranque cuando hay que conversar incómodo que no desaparezca cuando las cosas dejan de ser livianas gente atractiva hay por todos lados lo difícil es encontrar a alguien que esté a la altura de la vida que una ya se está construyendo sola entonces hoy elijo estar sola no por falta de opciones si no porque no cualquiera merece ese espacio prefiero mi paz antes que una compañía que reste y eso para mí también lo llamo amor propio
Why are you alone?"
They always ask me the same thing, as if being alone were something bad, like a problem that needs to be justified. And on top of that, it comes with subtext, you know? Like, if you're pretty, if you have your life more or less put together, if you work, if you're doing well... they expect that, obviously, you should already be with someone.
But the truth is much simpler than all that. It's not that I'm alone because I'm not being "chosen"; I'm alone because I choose to be. And look, it's not that I'm looking for something impossible. It's no longer just about looks, or money, or status-of course, it helps if someone has stability, but that's not everything. At this age, you finally realize that what's truly scarce is something else: emotional maturity. Consistency between what is said and what is done. Someone who doesn't run away when it's time to have an uncomfortable conversation, who doesn't disappear when things stop being "light."
Attractive people are everywhere. The hard part is finding someone who is at the level of the life you've already built for yourself.
So today, I choose to be alone-not for a lack of options, but because not just anyone deserves that space. I prefer my peace over company that drains me. And to me, that is also called self-love.