Discomfort is a feeling that no one wants to be a victim of. This is because when we're not comfortable with our well-being, it'll affect our mental state of health. What will do or the people around us may cause discomfort for us and when we're at the state of not comfortable with our life, the feeling of thinking, frustration, greed and depression will arise.
Discomfort is a feeling that when we're in the state, we may lose control of the mind, and we may feel cheated and want to retaliate in the future. But we must understand that when people cause discomfort for us, we must not see them as if they hate us or never want us to exist. Sometimes those that make us feel discomfort may not see it the way we may take it. This is more reason we must not allow the feeling gotten from being discomfort to override us in taking a negative action over those that caused it. We must think deeply about why someone makes us discomfort before taking any action.
I really understand that sometimes people we love or care for can cause us the pain of discomfort. This is because some people are good at having their privacy rather than sharing anything with anybody. When we have such people around us, we may think that they don't want anything good to come to us. If care is not taken, we have started having negative feelings of greed. We must understand that one's privacy is very important in life and in that case, people will always cause discomfort for us in order to gain their freedom of privacy.
I could remember when I was still a student! One day, I went to visit a friend at his lodge. When I visited, we were all happy to see each other. At this time, we were doing everything together in the house as a friend. Fortunately, because of how happy I and my friend was during the time of my stay in his lodge, my friend told me not to go that day. And I agreed to stay. When it was night, my guy's girlfriend came around. But my friend quarreled with her for not informing him before coming. After some minutes of the girl's stay, my guy changed from the person I used to know a few minutes ago and started treating me as a nobody. My guy even left me in the house and take the girl out for supper.
During sleep hour, I was already lying on the bed when my guy and his girlfriend returned from their outing. Do you know that my guy told me to come down from the bed so that the girlfriend could lie? At this stage, I was totally discomforted which led me to feel embarrassed, pain, thinking, and many more. But I have to remember that the house is not mine but my guy, he has the right to do whatever he chooses to do as the house is his.
We must understand that no one is ready to give us a hundred percent comfort. This is because what is not ours can never be ours. We must also understand that people choose the kind of associates they can render to us. By so doing, they can cause discomfort for us at any time and we must be ready to accept their action of discomfort.
You must not allow discomfort to make you feel uncomfortable by causing you pain and embarrassment. This is because it's capable of breaking a true relationship and at the same time making you feel cheated and hurt. When you feel hurt by people around you, you'll start having bad feelings toward them. Remember that your comfort and that of the people around you are essential. Always never be too forward to draw conclusions about why you were discomforted.