Shyness is a very important topic we shouldn't overlook. This is because average people around the world have witnessed shyness because of one encounter or the other. Shyness is a kind of feeling that could be encountered out of fear, insecurity, love, lack of confidence, and many more. When we are shy, we lose control over what we may desire, because we may be thinking that we can't make it a reality. We may be desiring to do or have something, but because we are shy to face the crowd, to witness failure and other related issues. We may not know how to work for what we desire because we are shy about how to do it.
Most people are shy about love. This is because they may not know how to express their love to the person in question. In an early relationship, they are people who find it difficult to stand the face of their lover due to the level of their shyness. The truth is that, when you are shy to your lover in a relationship, your lover may not really understand what's actually wrong with you except if the person is a good observer. If one fails to express confidence in a relationship because of shyness, the relationship may be shaking because you may want to share an idea, a complaint, care, and many more with your lover, but due to shyness, you will fail to express those feelings. You should always have the boldness and confidence to stand your lover by avoiding being shy. This will help a relationship to understand both sides.
I could remember when I was still in secondary school, I used to be shy whenever I see my school teacher at home. Most times in secondary school, if I see my secondary school teacher around the village, I used to be shy to even greet them. This is because I always feel scared that the teacher will know me more if we should be in school. This will make me feel that the teacher will flog me in school.
I could also remember that I used to be shy not to answer a question in class. Whenever I'm asked a question in class, I used to be shy not to answer the question wrongly, so that my classmate will not laugh at me, especially the girls. But luckily for me, before leaving secondary school, I became confident in myself that failure will not change anything but correct me.
Are you also aware that age bracket is another key area where people are shy? Let me use this opportunity to inform you that years back, I used to be shy whenever I find myself in the midst of those ahead of me in age. In a meeting or association that involves older people, I used to be shy to share an opinion or contribute to other people's comments because they are older than me. I always feel shy having older people in a meeting because I thought that if I say anything in the meeting, they will shun or abuse me, not knowing that it was all false. I believe that most people around the world also encounter shyness of age, and I think it'll be good if they can learn to avoid being shy whenever they're in a meeting involving those ahead of them in age. If you avoid being shy and contribute in a meeting involving your older ones, you'll be opportune to learn new things from them.
For those who work in one office or the other, you must learn how to avoid being shy to other workers, especially to the directors and admin. When you're shy to contribute your tacit and explicit knowledge to the growth of the organization, those who are superior may think that you are hiding something, this is because you must contribute in one way or the other in your working place. You must also avoid being shy with those you are working with within your office. Be free and communicate with everyone by sharing different points of view related to the office or the public.