Quite most of the time I have actually come to discover that we always allow our situation to define us in terms of probably we are trying to achieve something and probably we fail to achieve it. Suddenly I discovered that we begin to see ourselves as the failure which should not actually be so. We are not the failure.
Yes I quite understand that probably you are trying to achieve something but you end up not achieving it. Probably you might not be having the money and the society is kind of seeing you as a failure or whatever. I am here to tell you that it does not define you because you are not the failure. Failure should not define you.
Failure is just an event and not you yourself. You just happen to be face with that circumstances around that particular time. So Instead of actually dwelling in regrets that you are the failure. Never see yourself as the failure because the moment you start seeing yourself as the failure, it will limit you for you to actually see the positivity that actually lies ahead. Always tell yourself that you are not the failure. It is just an event.
Let me let you know that in this life, one will be faced with difficult situations at times that might really threatened you and make you do things that you are not supposed to do. In fact I have come to discover that there are a whole lot of people that have actually live in the Shambles of their past regret. Probably something happen to you in the past. Always let it go.
I mean no matter what might have actually happen in the past, it does not define you so let it go before it actually affect you. If you don't let that feeling go, it will hold you down for so many years that you might not even be able to see positive and think positive. That is actually how life can really be. No matter what I am here to tell you that stay positive because the future is bright. You don't need to be limited by what is happening right now because there are better days ahead.