Yh I saw this tongue speaking handsome man. Though we weren't in the same church but spirituality if I may say ...brought us together.
It started during the cashless policy, naturally I was always a busy girl.
Just a girl focusing on her career life, but then I wanted to be a model, I wanted to be an influencer. I had passion for recreating pictures. I had someone I wanted to be like. So I started taking pictures, arranging for shoots. And each time I did, I'll get lots of good comments. My dad said I shouldn't model because of his perspective of modelling saying he doesn't want me to be dressing half naked on social Media. Yh it's actually the first time my dad is putting a restriction on something I love to do.
But after the first shoot, I showed it to him, that they're still modest model. I told him I wanted to be a Jesus model and he had no option than to give me his approval.
That aside, so Edmund and I had been a distance friend for awhile,
I had always admire him from a distance because he was God fearing and always dedicated to the things of God.
Cashless policy brought us together, since I could no longer move out freely because of lack of cash. I could no longer take pictures and I was looking for a way my parents will send our driver to come pick back to my base( my parents house).
My dad's driver failed us and that was made me stay longer in my school city.
So that's how Edmund and I connected to each other .
It was 14th February and I called 80% of contacts to share the love. His number wasn't an exception. Before this time he was already very close to my elder sis, so with my presence in the house we got to know each other more. He liked me
After two weeks, of staying at home, I was able to travel back to my parents house and this is where the bonding started fully.
He'll call me most often to check on me, but I never did because I knew what he wanted to do so I wasn't ready for any relationship stress.
After awhile, he succeeded in
talking me in.
And I did, because I loved him.
Few months into our relationship, my picture life fade, oga did not like me just going for a random shoots, for the first time in my birthday I didn't do an official shoot because the man I'm dating is not in support. Not like he openly ask me to stop, but his words always discouraged me.
I feel I was stupid then, to have actually allowed him affects what gives me joy.
All of a sudden the relationship became boring, we had issues almost every week.
When it was finally on my neck I had to speak up. And that was the end of it. But he later came back to apologize but I refused to take up the relationship.
Each passing day, I tried my best to move on and build a life for myself first.
But then, I never really blamed him, it was my fault, I didn't speak up on time, I didn't let him know I was bored in the relationship.Each time we have issues I'll always keep mute instead of speaking up.
And I ended carrying that weight to pour it out in one day.
But before then I noticed he had another girl. So immediately I spoke up he said he's done. And I told him "fine". Few months later he came back but it was already too late. I learnt my lesson even though it came the hard way.
Please let me hear how your first relationship was at the comments section.