I received a text from mom and she asked about my dating life. Who's gonna tell her? Well, I'm now live in an island specifically in an area that is known as a place that is full of fuckboys. Do I have an experience with them? I think everyone that lives in Bali, especially in Canggu does have this experience at least once.
Almost everyone here knows each other. It is either they find each other on dating app or from a party. It is not a new thing here. We can say it is part of typical Canggu behaviour. If you live here from quite long you'd definitely can just detect these fuckboys by just how they dressed. It is the fuckboy's radar Imma say.
I've had experience with these guys here. Some of them could be 8/10, some of them are shit. Pretty face could mean nothing. Well I won't say it a shame, because only God who is perfect. But here are the signs of the fuckboys based on my experience.
Narcissistic
This is always the main sign of all these fuckboys. If you find them on a dating app, they will put some cheesy/cringe pickup lines on their bio to attract these girls. Their profile will also be full of pictures of them partying. Showing off their lifestyle for a status and a strategy to impress these women.
Refuse to put label or claim you
This is the stage when they act like they want you but they actually are not ready or don't want to commit for a relationship. You know what kind of behaviour is this. Yes baby they still want to fuck around. They feel like they are not enough with only one girl and yet they act like they want you. We are girls sometimes don't know the difference of guy's effort. You think he want to keep it lowkey and no rush but he actually just enjoys things with you. Baby girl, it is not what we call effort.
Only calls or text you to netflix and chill
They never take you out. They only invite you to come over to their place for "chill". They basically just use you. He left you on read and never text you asking about your day or even just a 'how are you' text. He only exist when he need something. He only exist for a bootycall. He never exist on daily basis. Dump him now. Thats all I can say. You got no time for this shit babygirl.
He won't introduce you to his friends
"I'm not ready yet. It is too soon". Yeah it is been 7months of yall together. He never claim you as 'his', how'd you expect him to introduce you to his friends? It will nevee work like that baby.
Full of lies and excuses
He is always making excuses that he forgot to reply to your texts. It is related to point 3. He just calls or texts you when he needs you. He said he is busy that he won't even be able to text you back. Well he busy with other bitches that is for sure.
Sometimes we girls are dumb. One sweet act from a guy, and we think he is the one. Well I didn't say this is a shame that this thing happens on us. This is actually good so then we experienced it. We will be more aware in the future. We should know our worth boo. If a guy wants you, wants to be with you, they will put all the efforts and will always dying want to see you. Will claim you as soon as they think you are the one for them because they can't imagine or see you with someone else. Know your worth. If they dont want you, 20 guys in the queue baby.