Our life journey start in the mind. Unfading love is the foundation to every success, love yourself and all the creations of God.
TOGETHER FOREVER
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I am not married but I had lived with couples who got married and had kid's.
Feelings is the center of attraction of a male and female who share common thoughts, pain, affection and agreed to be one in unity of God. In a courtship passion from both parties are noticed continually and they will agree to be wedded together.
Couples will stay together in love, prayerfully together and enjoying the romantic space in their hearts untill a little baby comes into the world.
THE DIVISION
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Children are blessings from God but we must learn how to love them and keep the banlace of loving your spouse. When children are born into the family especially if it took the family long time to be blessed by God with only a child, the love is now shifted to the child. Either the mother or father will excessively love the child and given just little attention to his/her spouse, a child could make a mistake but will not be corrected and if the father for instance shout on the kid, problem arises in the family. It's good to love children but do not forget your spouse is the origin of the new image(child) and we are humans with emotions so never shift the love you have for your spouce to a child but try to keep the balance in loving the child and your foerver vow husband/wife to stay together. What brought the two of you together was love except you had initially agreed on a basis of just to have a child and part ways someday just as some married on the ground of business, contract award or any reason.
A CHILD AND HIS PET
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Parents misunderstood each other because of a child while the child is busy loving a pet. Children often has pets they cherish more and have time with even go to bed together. Children gives more attention to their pets and love them dearly in thier heart. But when the child grows up to a responsible person he choose to love either his father or mother more than the pet he has. Parents try to balance the equation of love on both side.
DO NOT FORGET WE ARE HUMANS WITH FEELINGS. LIVE TO LOVE YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN.
NOTE: MARRY BECAUSE YOU LOVE YOUR SPOUSE NOT FOR CHILDREN SO YOU CAN BUILD A HAPPY HOME WHEN GOD BLESSES YOUR FAMILY WITH KIDS.