Relationships have their dynamic, which makes it super unique to whosoever engages in it. This makes it harder to make comparisons among different relationships because then they are different. A good and serving relationship may not be what we thought of when we critically evaluate it among a couple or couples. So when people don’t want to interfere in other people’s relationships, they say, “As long as you are happy,” it’s fine. So no matter how your relationship is, if it bends and isn’t really a good one, people conclude it serves its purpose as long as it makes you happy, it’s good.Yet, there are some templates in which a relationship should follow to make it a good and great one.
This becomes a determinant in what foundation people can use to keep a great relationship or to start one. One of such is the idea of a soulmate. It’s a generative idea that soulmates exist, and that for everybody, there is someone made for you. I find this belief strange. There are billions of people in the world; it becomes unbelievable that you are only made for someone with whom you can have a meaningful relationship.
To explain the soulmate concept in another light, the life of a man is the life of order, in which everything is set on a certain principle and structure. This enables the man to lead a good and successful life.
Yet, too much order breeds tyranny and may allow the man to fall into a kind of life whereby he feels he doesn’t need anybody and may repel when people come into his space. To avoid this, he goes in search of a woman who brings chaos into his life. When order meets chaos, it brings balance.For a good life, a man has to be very critical of the kind of chaos he invites into his life.
This is where the idea of a soulmate comes in. The soul, which talks about emotions, the state of the mind, and feelings, is a part of man that is very needed for success. The role of the woman, since she is more in tune with her emotions than the man, is to use that emotional part of her to serve the man and push him to be more successful.Men, in picking their partners, should ensure they go for a good woman who connects with them on a soulish level, as it determines their success in life and in other endeavors in life.
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