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For this blog, let's talk about love as February 14 the Valentine's day that passed by the person and the golden one "TIME", at the end of the moment of thinking wherein it made me contemplate about these questions.
When is the perfect time to say that you found the right one?
How can you be so sure that he/she's the one you've looking for? How can you determine that both of you were destined to have each other?
Love is everything; love is blind, love is forever, family is love and even love is life. It is unexplainable feeling you've got towards someone.
I was scrolling on my Facebook account when I saw this short story that questioned about LOVE and TIME. All of us dreaming or should I say we want a "RIGHT LOVE at the RIGHT TIME". Well no one who doesn't like to have this, right? But what if you got both opposite. Like having a right love on a wrong time or having a right time but wrong way of expressing the love in between. Is LOVE really that questionable? Or the person itself who either give or receive the magical one that called "LOVE".
The story was all about the random question that a student suddenly asked out of nowhere and left the whole class in an argument and made their teacher share a sad and heart breaking story based on her life. But let me just share to you guys the point why I wrote this. The question begin with;
"Ma'am, what would you choose, meeting a right person and love in a wrong time or meeting the wrong person and love in a right time?"
Well who else want this right? Because even putting it in any direction, the only one it will end up was getting HURT. However, one thing got me was how the teacher give her explanation.
"They said, meeting the right person in the wrong time is the worst heartbreak that can ever happened to you. But no one had no idea how painful it is to meet the right person in the right timeline, in the right place and in the right version of reality.
Yeah, everything seems to fall in the right places— it's just that, there's no enough time for the both of you."
"Well, to put it simply, it's more painful to be with the right person but no enough time."
Source: Nany Ramos post on Facebook.
Exactly she got me, it hurt so much to think that you are already prepared and ready to face the circumstances because you believe that love can conquer all as you see that he/she Is the right one you've looking for, however the both of you don't have enough time to express and grow together, that it's just a small borrowed time. You encountered each other but not fated to be with one another.
However on the other day, I saw a short reels video of Moira talking about relationships, and she said
"If both of you doesn't end up together, it's not a failed relationship because the number (1) reason of dating is knowing his/her flaws, and everything about that person. Why did I included this? Because some of my friends when they're in a relationship and if it won't work, they hate the person and even talk bad about them which is bad for the both sides.
We should be thankful of having an opportunity to know that person even in a short period of time. **In life there's no failure, it's just a sign that you haven't yet found the final one and got the right spot for you maybe they were the right one to hurt us for us to raise our standard, for us to know our boundaries or non-negotiable. Maybe they were the right person to leave us for us to determine that we can stand on our own, maybe they were the right person to break us for us to build ourselves better. So we should keep going and be thankful for having them even it they brought us heartaches however, we learn.
"In our life that everything happened are unpredictable and it doesn't give us what we want, yet it give us what we need. In accordance that everything happen for a reason and has its purpose. It is up to us how to live and grow upon it".
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