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Es motivo de Alegr铆a compartir con ustedes un nuevo post, en esta ocasi贸n quiero contarles un poco sobre una conversaci贸n que tuve con una buena amiga hace unos d铆as, el tema principal de esa conversaci贸n fue La Manipulaci贸n Emocional.
Recientemente esta buena amiga atraves贸 un problema familiar muy grave con su abuelita debido a que esta fue manipulada por una persona mientras ella estaba fuera del pais.
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Debido a ciertos inconvenientes la abuela no pudo viajar con su familia al extranjero, confiados dejaron a su abuelita en compa帽铆a de unas personas cercanas quienes se ganaron la confianza de la familia, ninguno de ellos imagino que detr谩s de las aparentes buenas intenciones ocultaban la manipulaci贸n y un gran numero de malas intenciones.
Esta noticia me causo mucho asombro porque a todos los involucrados en el caso los conozco, sin embargo jam谩s imagine que har铆an un gran numero de injusticias detr谩s de la Manipulaci贸n a esta Anciana.
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It is a joy to share with you a new post, this time I want to tell you a little bit about a conversation I had with a good friend a few days ago, the main topic of that conversation was Emotional Manipulation.
Recently this good friend went through a very serious family problem with her grandmother because she was manipulated by a person while she was out of the country.
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Due to certain inconveniences the grandmother could not travel with her family abroad, they confidently left her grandmother in the company of some close people who gained the family's trust, none of them imagined that behind the apparent good intentions they were hiding manipulation and a great number of bad intentions.
This news caused me much astonishment because I know everyone involved in the case, however I never imagined that they would do a great number of injustices behind the manipulation of this old lady.
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Un Manipulador Emocional presenta varios s铆ntomas el primero de ellos es que es muy observador, este logra detectar la fragilidad Emocional de una persona, lo que le permite idear planes para sacar provecho de ella.
Este Comportamiento los lleva a utilizar la mentira para aparentar una falsa empat铆a con una persona, organizando acciones y discursos que le permitan ganarse la confianza de esa persona.
Estas acciones fue lo que le permiti贸 a la persona que se encargo de la anciana ganarse la confianza de la familia mostrando una falsa empat铆a.
Al compartir con la anciana lo primero que hizo fue darse cuenta de la tristeza, molestia, que sent铆a por el viaje de su familia al extranjero, emociones que uso a su favor, adem谩s de lo dif铆cil que era para ella recordar algunas cosas.
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De esta forma aprovecho para sacar informaci贸n sobre los bienes de la familia, esta persona era muy 谩gil para hacer sus discursos y convencer a la abuela, la cual quedaba encantada y llego a tenerle mucho aprecio pero sin darse cuenta esta persona quer铆a robarle.
Esta persona sabia que al ganarse la confianza de la abuela podr铆a acceder a mucha informaci贸n sobre los bienes de la familia, al principio este se mostro paciente con la anciana con el tiempo recurri贸 a la violencia, chantaje todo por sacar provecho lo que llevo a la abuela a entrar en una depresi贸n entonces todo se complico para el.
En esa etapa esta persona tenia el control de la dulce abuelita, al estar acorralado por la salud de la abuela, empez贸 a chantajearla Emocionalmente, pasando de la manipulaci贸n al Chantaje
Uno de sus nietos se dio cuenta de todo lo que pasaba, a trav茅s de una video llamada miro un golpe que tenia la abuela reflejado en su cara, lo que lo alarmo y llamo a sus hermanos los cuales planearon llegar de sorpresa a Venezuela.
An Emotional Manipulator presents several symptoms, the first of them is that he is very observant, he is able to detect the Emotional fragility of a person, which allows him to devise plans to take advantage of it.
This behavior leads them to use lies to pretend a false empathy with a person, organizing actions and speeches that allow them to gain the trust of that person.
These actions were what allowed the person who took care of the old woman to gain the family's trust by showing false empathy.
When sharing with the old woman the first thing she did was to realize the sadness and annoyance she felt because of her family's trip abroad, emotions that she used to her advantage, as well as how difficult it was for her to remember some things.
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This person was very agile to make his speeches and convince the grandmother, who was delighted and became very fond of him, but without realizing it, this person wanted to steal from her.
This person knew that by gaining the grandmother's trust he could gain access to a lot of information about the family's assets, at the beginning he was patient with the old lady and eventually resorted to violence and blackmail to take advantage of her, which led grandma to go into a depression and then everything became complicated for him.
At that stage this person had control of the sweet grandmother, being cornered by the grandmother's health, he began to blackmail her emotionally, going from manipulation to blackmail.
One of her grandchildren realized everything that was happening, through a video call he saw a blow that had the grandmother reflected in her face, which alarmed him and called his brothers who planned to arrive in Venezuela as a surprise.
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Una persona manipuladora utiliza tus emociones siempre con la finalidad de sacar provecho, usando en algunos casos el miedo, culpa que siente la persona, en otros casos expresa halagos para hacia la persona para hacerle creer que siente admiraci贸n por ella, hipocres铆a y mentiras detr谩s de una sonrisa.
Una persona Manipuladora se presenta segura, sin embargo detr谩s de todo ese espect谩culo de actuaciones esconde inseguridades, emociones como la envidia.
Para la familia de la anciana fue duro llegar a casa de sorpresa para encontrarse con un gran numero de problemas todos causados por la manipulaci贸n, uno de ellos fue que todas las cerraduras de la casa estaban cambiadas, incluyendo las de las otras tres casas de la familia.
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La familia antes de irse le hab铆a dejado a la abuela un llavero con llaves de todas las casas, lo segundo fue que los papeles de la casa principal fueron cambiados a nombre de esta persona.
Con astucia y una falsa preocupaci贸n hizo creer a la abuela que sus hijos no volver铆an por ella, por esta raz贸n ella le dio el permiso de hacer varios cambios en algunos documentos.
La cuenta bancaria de la anciana fue robada con la excusa de comprar alimentos, a su lado ella sent铆a a un hijo que la amaba, pero todo era falso.
Despu茅s de un tiempo cuando esta persona quiso cambiar otros bienes a su nombre la abuela descubri贸 sus intenciones lo que la llevo a deprimirse, en ese estado la salud de la abuela empeoro y todo se sali贸 de control.
La familia No sospechaba nada de esta persona, porque se mostraba atenta, carism谩tica, segu铆a la instrucci贸n de la familia, todo parec铆a bien cuidado.
A manipulative person uses your emotions always with the purpose of taking advantage, using in some cases the fear, guilt that the person feels, in other cases he/she expresses flattery towards the person to make him/her believe that he/she feels admiration for him/her, hypocrisy and lies behind a smile.
A manipulative person appears confident, but behind all this show of performances hides insecurities, emotions such as envy.
It was hard for the old woman's family to arrive home in surprise to find a great number of problems all caused by manipulation, one of them was that all the locks of the house were changed, including those of the other three houses of the family.
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The family before leaving had left the grandmother a key ring with keys of all the houses, the second thing was that the papers of the main house were changed to this person's name.
With cunning and a false concern she made the grandmother believe that her children would not come back for her, for this reason she gave her permission to make several changes in some documents.
The old woman's bank account was robbed with the excuse of buying food, she felt a son who loved her, but it was all false.
After some time, when this person wanted to change other goods to her name, the grandmother discovered his intentions, which led her to become depressed, in that state the grandmother's health worsened and everything got out of control.
The family did not suspect anything about this person, because she was attentive, charismatic, followed the family's instructions, everything seemed to be well taken care of.
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Entre Manipulaci贸n y Chantaje Emocional esta persona consigui贸 lograr sus objetivos, actualmente la familia recupero parte de sus bienes y la abuelita esta en buenas manos.
La manipulaci贸n emocional pasa sin ser percibida delante de nosotros, cualquier persona puede ser controlada de forma sutil por otra persona sin darse cuenta y de esta forma logra que cambiemos nuestros comportamientos, pensamientos todo con la finalidad de cubrir sus ambiciones.
En este tipo de atropello Emocional no somos conscientes del control que tiene la otra persona sobre nosotros, en el caso de la abuela sent铆a miedo a quedarse sola, se sinti贸 abandonada, triste, todo esta carga emocional fue la clave para ser manipulada sin ejercer sobre ella ning煤n abuso f铆sico al principio.
La gran cantidad de favores que esta persona hizo a la familia, tambi茅n ocultaban las intenciones, al final este manipulador quer铆a cobrarse hasta los intereses, un manipulador siempre espera cobrarse los favores que hizo.
El drama de esta familia me dejo muchas ense帽anzas, no todas las personas que se acercan a nosotros tienen buenas intenciones, algunos vienen disfrazados de amigos.
Between Manipulation and Emotional Blackmail this person managed to achieve his goals, currently the family recovered part of their property and the grandmother is in good hands.
Emotional manipulation happens without being perceived in front of us, any person can be controlled in a subtle way by another person without realizing it and in this way he/she manages to make us change our behaviors, thoughts, everything with the purpose of covering his/her ambitions.
In this type of emotional abuse we are not aware of the control that the other person has over us, in the case of the grandmother she was afraid of being alone, she felt abandoned, sad, all this emotional charge was the key to be manipulated without exercising any physical abuse on her at the beginning.
The large number of favors that the person did for the family, also hid the intentions, in the end this manipulator wanted to collect even the interest, a manipulator always expects to collect the favors he did.
The drama of this family left me with many lessons, not all the people who approach us have good intentions, some come disguised as friends.
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