Greeting from here, it’s amazing to share this amazing feeling with you, actually, the joy is overwhelming, I have known joy but not in this dimension, I actually had some expectation of joy when true intimacy is found in marriage but did not know how well it can go. Few months ago I encountered a newly married couple having some funny but not funny experience, my heart skipped, it was quite unexpected, it brought fear to me because i was about starting the journey of one becoming two, I am some good weeks now in true marriage intimacy and the feeling is fresh on a daily basis. if that is not your reality, then carefully take a look at this few useful tips.
This joy is amazing but come with some huge responsibilities, and you must be willing to take responsibility in other to see this joy flow in this dimension, my mum shared this tips with me, I really did not take them into consideration but immediately after my encounter with those funny but not funny couple, the whole stuffs that mummy shared started ringing like an alarm in my mind, this tips are magical and I will request you journey with me on it.
The joy comes with responsibility, in will be sharing a few of them that mummy told me and it is magically working for me.
Embrace differences:
Days before with got married, I was not really bordered about many of her differences, I felt it was not important but immediately we got into the same house, it became clear to me that I am not leaving with myself but with another individual, Yes we agreed to be one but we did not agree on everything, I wanted to start complaining but as I critically looked at it, I saw her uniqueness and my love for her became more deeper than it started.
Embracing her unique differences, opened me up to many things that I never knew could be amazing and enjoyable about her, don’t fight her or his differences, embrace it, you will amaze how well she or he will compliment you.
Make each other a priority:
The willingness to make your partner your priority is key as your feeling of joy grows increasingly, when you prioritize each other, unknown to you both, trust and intimacy is building inwardly, and this is the best way to invest in relationship for personal growth and inward connectivity that burns the soul, spirit and body.
Be humble:
Being humble makes you very open and transparent, it helps you to open to correction, keeps you honest and accessible, when you are humble you will be willing to freely give and as well take, without any bias reservation. I agree with you that you are a man of respectable class, character and conduct, it is your humility that will make this visible to your partner, words will not explain this but your humility will bring it and present it real.
Willingness to make adjustment to changes:
I have discovered that it is very easy to adjust to the changes of persons you meet with either at the place of work or the people living within your environs but it is actually very difficult to make adjustment to changes in the people that are emotionally connected to us, especially in relationship.
The reason is simple, we do expect that someone closely relating with us should know us better, in teams of our likes and dislikes than the people we pass by alongside our daily engagements, because of the fact that we are not attached to them, whatever happens will pass by but when it happens with people connected to us intimately, it will linger longer. This should not be so, it’s a mindset thing and so we should discipline ourselves to adjust and forgive at any point we see changes occur, this is so interesting and when you can do it, joy flows like a river.
I will conclude by saying that it is important to leave every day, making every opportunity count, don’t leave things that you ought to do today thinking that you will do it tomorrow, say what you should say, if need be for an apology today do it, if your relationship is having some struggle, it’s a clear indication that mutual honor is missing, if it is a character issue, humble yourself and seek help from some coaches and professionals
This has been my routine in the past weeks, believe me, the joy is unexplainable, am happy that we are one, my wife 
