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Hello,it's my pleasure to be here
I really love this topic
BOREDOM because is something that I go through everyday
My friends used to tell me that when am grown enough I will stop experiencing boredom,I won't be bored anymore because that feeling automatically will go. But that isn't true, boredom doesn't look at age,how young or old you are or how hardworking you are moreover how strong you are it's comes unawares.
When u are bored,you will feel very restless, lonely,you will start thinking about one thing or the other both the negative and the positive will come sometimes you will feel a very slight of depression,you start remembering your pasts,your mistakes and a lot more
Boredom kills slowly because when you do this continually it will definitely change your mindset and even those evil thought will come and you will want to try it.
I can remember when I finished my secondary, I never wanted to go home because I got used to hostel life than home you know when you are in the school arena you will definitely not be bored because you have friends around, people to chat with,you play,you argue,you have fun but once I arrive home that feeling will go,I will b sad,I will always wish for school to resume fast because when am home boredom welcomes me
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I know that everyone has experienced this part of boredom but there are some that
are above boredom the hit you in hard way
When I finally finished my secondary School I knew I was down for it, am not a social freak,I prefer staying indoors to outdoors,I don't really have friends that I will say I might visit it was just me and the four walls of the large house
When my parent are out I do my normal routine and then I lay on my bed wishing I will just be given the opportunity to explore the world but no everyday I live like this the worst turn out when I couldn't get admission to University damn it was going to be hell
My parents don't really stay at home every morning they go out and return at night so I didn't really enjoy anyone's company
I felt this part of loneliness, emptiness, dissatisfaction and everything I usually wish someone will just pops out from noway and carry me for a travel but all my wishes were just mere ones cos none worked for me.
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Soooo this part of bored mess continue the house was always quit,you begin to talk to yourself, imagine the evil thinks of this world sometimes you will even to forced to watch what your not supposed to because you just need to be happy and forget about what your going through.
One day I asked my dad "daddy can I work to keep myself busy that am tired of the house" my dad replied "no you can't work, moreover you don't know anywhere in this uyo and you are too young to start working" I was so upset because I knew I everyday I keep doing one routine and it's even became boring to cut the long story short I never enjoy the peace and comfort of my home because boredom was killing my slowing it's became part of me,I started getting use to it infact I got addicted to it, sometimes I act weird my parents will ask me what is it I will tell them it's boredom.
It's became a mental problem for me that I got addicted to it but thanks God my joy was full when I later had admission I was very happy
Boredom isn't a mental issue,it is that feeling like your loosing it.And in the cause of my study about boredom have learnt alot
To end to this, being bored is Normal isn't a disaster and to be able to b relieve of your boredom you have to
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Change you routine
Do something new
Be creative
Read motivational books
Cultivate a social life
Create time to have fun,play,gist and lot more
Have friends with benefits make new friends don't be stock with one set of friends
Music is very essential in this aspect that was my companion I was able to go through it because music was there for me.
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