I personally understand myself to be an easygoing, simple and very straight forward man, I am gentle but I don't describe myself as gentle instead I prefer to use the word reserved because I try to avoid anything or actions that might change my mood or spoil my mood or motivation.
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I make sure I treat everyone nicely the same way I want to be treated, but the truth is some people doesn't understand this perspective this way probably because we grew up from different places and have have different Understandings to things. There are somethings my friends will do to me thinking it might get me angry but it won't, same also I do to them that I think will get them angry but wont, but the most annoying part of it is that it's just the little things that kind of causes uproar between us, not that we Intentionally want to acttbis way but it just the way we understand things from different aspect.
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There are some few things I can remember that actually gets me angry, which are;
Insult on Parents: I hate this aspect, I avoid insulting peoples parents even though I am very angry at the parent, same also I don't like anyone insulting mine I will be really pissed off if I get to experience this. I don't joke with my families.
Backbiting: I hate it when people speak malicious talk against me, acting like a snitch, smiling at my front and hating at my back, speaking bad about me, I hate this so much. I also don't engage this on anyone instead I restrain from whatever may cause this because it will cause serious hate to me.
Shouting at Me Gets Me Angry: I am slow to anger but I always must sure I reserve myself away from anything that might get me angry. Most times when this happens I remain silent but when it gets persistent I will fly up real bad and seriously. That is why I avoid things like this that makes me get angry.
Waking Me Up At Midnight gets me angry: This has to be the weirdest anger experience but it is true, this is me, I have when someone wakes me up majorly for stupid reasons, it gets me angry, because I hardly sleep. Specifically when I just sleep, it is very annoying at this moment.
So many things can get me angry but I try my best to avoid such occurrence and stay away from people that might cause issues like this. I understand myself so much and when I get extremely angry it is very hard for me to be calm because I will want to do what is in my mind and at that moment I can't be thinking straight. This is why I try to reserve myself from things that might make me get angry or act angry. The best thing to my know since anger can't be avoid completely is to learn to be reserved and walk away from any occurrence that might trigger the anger state.
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