Happiness cannot be defined by just one definition, because we all find happiness in different ways. Meanwhile, what makes you happy is not what makes me happy.
The source of our happiness is different; you will see that for some people, the only thing that makes them happy is food. Although food is also an important thing that makes me happy, believe me, food is even the number one thing that makes me happy. Because food has done a lot of bad things to me in the past.
And now I'm going to take revenge.
I'm not the type to see movies; in fact, when I was at home for holidays, I stayed at home for four months and did not see any movies. So I'm not a fan of it. But the first thing that makes me happy all the time is food. As I said earlier, food has done me bad in the past. I had suffered a lot eating what I didn't like. There are different kinds of food. The one you eat when you are hungry and the one you eat to satisfy yourself. Even when I was hungry, I did not see it. I only see what I see and what is available.
Although I can afford to buy what I crave, it is not to that extent. Naturally, the love I have for food cannot be overemphasized. And no matter what might make me sad or what makes me angry, once I see good food, that sadness will disappear at that moment.
Apart from food, I've got other things that make me happy, and nature is one of them. I'm someone who loves to talk to nature a lot. Believe me, if I'm sad, I will like to talk to nature. If I'm happy, I will like to talk to nature. I just want a place where I can sit alone in a place full of beautiful nature and express my feelings. Well, I don't know why I got obsessed with nature. This is just who I am.
More so, I'm someone with a very small circle of friends. I don't talk to everyone. I only talk to a few people. I mean, to those I call my friends, they are just a few in number. Physically, I'm someone who is shy. I'm not always comfortable with people I don't want to talk to. So if eventually you became my friends in one way or another,. Then you are my happiness. My friends are my happiness, and I think about them almost all the time. Especially if we are in a gathering where it contains me and all my friends. Believe me, I will always want to disturb them until the last minute. My friends love to be around me, and I love to be around them. No matter what I'm thinking, once I see my friends, I will be free like a bird and talk to length. A lot of people don't really know me. They think I don't talk or play, because honestly, you will never see me play or talk. Not until I see my friends. Then you will know I'm talkative, and I play a lot.
Family is the last thing that makes me happy. Anytime I hear good things about them, I'm always happy, and I've got a beautiful family. Family that always accommodates people. So no matter what I'm going through in life, I will tell my family first. Because I know that once I tell them, I will be free of that burden.
In a nutshell, these are what make me happy as a man.
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