Jealousy is one of those emotions that is very well structured within human emotions and it is something that stays very deep inside us and it is something that can't be a thing that is not present in everything one of us it can be something that we can deny the presence of but surely it is always going to be existing with in our self and it can be something that we might find very much difficult to be staying away from because it comes to us naturally as we feel coin jealous about a lot of things around us and the way our Lifestyle structure right now is also promoting that same behaviour.
Many times, people get too jealous, and it is going to be an eye-catching thing after a point in time, and then people and going to be labelling it as something that is going to be quite toxic as well, and people might also be calling them petty. We need to always realise the fan that all of these emotions are something that are coming naturally to US and is something that is going to be not very easy to surprise and it is also not why is to suppress them but we should always be looking forward towards embracing them and also trying to control them in a very easy manner which is going to be quite healthy as well.
The lifestyle that we all are living is always going to be in such a manner that is how we have been comparing ourself with other people and this social comparison has become a metric of judging success among the people as well as things that they have and we don't and all of these things are glamorised through social media to a very big extent and all of this has no become a very big part of our mind set itself because we feel like if someone is getting successful it is going to be ask who is on the losing side.
First thing that we should be doing in such and situation is the fact that we should be realising that we are getting jealous of something or someone and making that first step towards acknowledging it should be a very good thing to be done because many of times even if we it it is going to be always be present with enough and once we notice that we are being jealous we should be acknowledging the fact and one of the things that we can look out are going to be the science that we do portray as we might get bitter after interaction with someone as well as remind also get a little bit passive aggressive whether the people because of something that they have achieved.
Apart from that we should be having a shift in our mind itself which is more focused on comparison with other people we should be be looking for inspiration from that same thing as if someone has achieved something we should be looking forward towards feeling more inspired to do that rather than feeling jealous about how they succeed and we haven't. Along with this we should always be looking forward towards been Grateful because we are already at a particular stage where a lot of people are working very hard to be at and we should be grateful for that as well because it is also something that we are trying very hard to reach at some other stage where someone else is already there.
We should also look forward towards celebrating the victories of other people and especially from those people whom we feel jealous from and that is going to be a very good antidote for this entire jealousy aspect of ours because it is going to be making the spirit lift white or not and also make them feel better about us as well and overall it is going to be a very good and positive environment which is also going to be making us feel good at the end as well.
Most of the times feelings are something that are quite natural but in many instances they get two personal and can be destructive as well and we need to be recognising those particular things before they get any ability to be impacting us in ways with we can't be controlling them and having those conversations which are going to be normalising all of the motion this something extremely important along with the fact that we need to be a knowledge in them within as to begin with.
All in all these are emotions that we are going to be dealing with and it is going to be depending on how we are responding when these emotions arise within as and then respons is going to be defining everything that is going to be happening and that is all what matter and the best part about all of this is that we have control over that and we need to be making sure that we have a really good decision to meet at that point of time when it matters.
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