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Welcome to my blog, my name is Valblesza
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I am so exited to share my joy and a content about today's topic, which is going to look like a content tro-back of my grandparents life and the indispensable role in my family.
And the host of other ones on my community, their impact and vital roles, in uphold the what makes up the community.
Like They say age is just a number but wisdom is the Hallmark of the a potential adult and aged ones.
My grandparents, first of all I would start by saying , may their gentle soul rest until we meet again.
Lovely and wonderful couples, love builders, emotional, affectionate they were to all.
Their roles would never be over emphasize, grandma, 😭❤️. She plays more than that key vital role of keeping love in the family even till her last bright.
Grandma was a women of virtue characters and, her unique attributes of love, caring and making sure her offspring unite together in another scum stance is one thing that her reputation would also be a thing to remember in our lives.
My grandparents believe do much that the United we stand and the divided we fall. These were their last wishes.
They preach unity and love among us so that if you as humans still have your consciousness tight would never want to hurt an ant .
Grandma because she we always want to see her children and grandchildren smile, sacrifice all her time for love, she was .
Truth be told, no family is perfect, and I don't see anything as being perfect than being able to tolerate others weakness and appreciate their strength.
Grandma was a perfectionist of this technique to maintain a sustainable love among her children.
My grandparents didn't just preach love to us alone as their offspring, even in the church they preach love.
If anyone would know my grandparents, if you are a stranger in the community is would only know they as Mama ni Papa Emem ( The Mother and Farther of peace).
Even in the family wemen gathering, mama we always preach love, unity and caring for one another. My family compound was crowded by wemen and men, you would come a seek for advice from my grandparents about issues .
Irrespective it was a It is a Monarch family, we wished is even the most reasonable why, peace wouldn't depart from their mouths, their way of living and addressing issues.
My grandparents were not only lover of people, peace makers and Unity preacher, they were cheerful givers.
Not just them alone, the older people with their age, did same, stating from a woman I used to be called mama eka, she was though a little bit troublesome just like my grandma, I will come to that.
But Mama Eka, hate injustice, Mama Eka, can even buy your matter and asked you to go about your way that it has become his matter.
She wasn't doing that out of hatred to, that anger usually suffices when she has tried to pull deputies together and all efforts seem abortive, then she will just buy the matter and tackle the both quarring parties.
Then the village, our community, and other neighbouring communities were in peace, because children were at least raised in fear and love.
We could hardly pass peers and elderly ones without paying appropriate salutations. Our identity as grandchildren then was like a make on our faces, because anywhere we go, people could easily detect that this are the grand Children of Mama Ni Papa Emem.
Though , we fought alot with our friends, you know children lifestyle, and that was the worst make of my life I made because Grandma scolded me throughout that day, if I was flog it would had even be better than how she scolded me.
My grandparents were hardheaded people in most cases, even my parents, adopted from them, including their other relatives.
However, we never learnt to violence, to destruction, because we care about the harsh consequence.
Mama was a women leader in the wemen Cultural group, she holds a position of unity among the wemen and young maidens of then, her age grade group gave her the title of Eka Emem ( The Mother of peace).
That's to tell you that she played a very vital role in the community.
I could remember one mama, had to gather the family and asked everyone to create a pox for the less priveleg, today that foundation still exists among the my people.
It is one of the biggest foundation in my community, we still uphold to the dignity of that foundation till date.