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Welcome to my blog, my name is Valblesza
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I am so excited to always be here with you guys. It is another we look at our live, from a different angle, make some differences out of it, but what does it really mean to look up to someone.
Many people, today, misunderstand or perhaps do not have a clear demarcation of the true meaning and differences between mentorship and comparison, which affects how most of a time we think and respond to issues around us.
However, my article today, would look at what comparison is, how it would have humans, the different between looking up to someone for good attributes and comparison.
Which in today's world is has become the part that most have chosen to life their lives with. As we all would know that people compare themselves to other individuals for obvious that seem personal to them, but if not properly manage that perceived emotions result in too many emotional disabilities and dissatisfaction in life.
It is appropriate to say that comparing one's self to others could have a colossal perceived impact on the compares' side of emotions and psychological understanding of his or her reality. And how they perceive their ego and potentials in the society and around them generally.
This is a practical topic, I won't do well much of my write-up and case and illustration with something from distancing. Let me now bring in me and my picture into this article.
Comparison comes in two ways, the negative comparison and the positive comparison. I as a person, not mimicking a word, I have compared myself with many people, depending on what I what to achieve out of it.
I hardly take away my family from most of my content, reason being that, that's where I learned and became what my greater part of my life is today.
In the family I come from, my parents didn't raise us to with the views of us merging, and success with other people's achievements, goals, and aspirations because. My parents would always say, similar to the marks on our palms, so our destinies different.
The last time I tried to validate that principle, was in school, I decided to compare myself with a friend of mine, who was living a very extra vang ant lifestyles.
Thou Jackson's parents were rich, in my case my parents were not that poor though, but Jackson always appears to live a more expensive life.
So I decided, to change my wall drop. I decided to make friends to meet with his standard. And I was into a very deep competition with him. Even when I do something I'm kind of not satisfied with it, I didn't do it on purpose.
But the truth remained that I didn't become him, neither did he become me. I paid dearly for it because it affects the way I stated thinking, the kind of things I do.
My entire psychological thinking over run my actions and his towards me and everything we shared, that was not a bad comparison. I didn't look up to him for something good, even when I decided to pick the right things he doesn’t, I didn't become him.
What my parents told me still surface, everyone can't be equal, the truth is that this attitude nearly destroyed my life, and feature. I thought I was making meaning today, Johnson is in prison because he compared himself to get things in beyond his reach.
It was so bad that my vision and goals became all clustered around who I am not, never day that had passed I wouldn't make up stories all because, people stated majoring me to how I act.
Comparison is bad, not it is never a healthy way of living around people. Believe me, that I didn't end up in jail, was by the mercy of fate I obtained.
Many people would consider it a healthy way of living, one thing I realized is that I couldn't be anyone, I was busy living the life of other people while half of my life had never been lived.
No matter how harder I tried, it didn't work, I see people compare themselves, it is so irritating, bad, it doesn't make any sense out all.
So people should learn how to behave, take what you know and be better at it, do their best, leave other people's business. Comparison well to others may say it positive, there is no positive comparison, just allow yourself to be led by the right emotions.
Let the lead of your life stories be improved upon by you, this is not about do you. A jargon slogan for those who want to remain a comparing their themselves.