It is valentine’s week again and we have emotions running high everywhere. Some people are already making bookings and reservations in expensive sit out, while others are placing calls to surprise package or gift vendors for special packages for their lovers. Everyone seems ready to spoil their lovers on valentine day. However, the truth is that, valentine’s day will bring joy and happiness to some people, rekindle love among partners while another set of people may end up sad, hurt, broken and disappointed, it will be a clear story of different experience and different outcome. All the same I wish everyone a love filled day on 14th of this month. My sincere concern today is for females who are in an undefined relationship, one that is not romantic but there is a desire by the female to make it officially a romantic relationship. Perhaps the other gender does not see the relationship that way or for whatever reason do not want to upgrade the relationship to the next level. Regardless of the relationship status, if a female is sure the love is mutual and on the same level with the possibility of everything going fine if the relationship is upgraded then these are the few things, I suggest you try out.
Be yourself Yes, be yourself. Do not try to look like someone else. There is nothing that attracts a man more than a confident woman! When you project self-confidence, you show that you love yourself. That makes you interesting and attractive to others.
Keep your goals clear Ask yourself if you want to be his friend or his girlfriend. If you really want a loving relationship with him, your behavior must show it. 3.If there is one thing that can scare a man, it is seeing a desperate woman. If you start begging and begging for a chance, you could lose it. On the contrary, patience should be your best virtue.
It is okay to always write to know about each other, this shows your interest, but avoid writing or calling too much just to talk about your day or how you feel after you have broken up with your ex.
It seems like very basic advice, but it works in most cases. It is amazing the effect on a guy when a woman starts dating someone else. A little jealousy does not kill anyone
Flirt a little This is one of the most important tips: flirt with him. You do not have to overdo it, nor does it have to be a sexual flirtation, just be flirtatious enough to make it clear that you have an interest in him.
Get ready for him The idea is that it is not too exaggerated, but sensual. If you want him to see you as an attractive woman, you must show yourself as an attractive woman!
Spend time alone with him This is a typical situation: most of the time he is seen, he is surrounded by other people. You try to send him all the signals in the world, but he is so distracted that he does not notice.
Give him some space The idea is not that I forget you, but I do miss you a little. Maybe part of the problem with me seeing you as a friend is that you see each other all the time. Make him realize what he is missing when you are not with him.
Ask him for help If you need a reason for him to spend more time with you, ask him for help with something. Take advantage of these moments to share alone with him, throw some flirtation at him.