In primary Schools most of us were taught that marriage is a union between a matured man and a Matured Woman. Maturity has dealt so much with us leaving many marriages in despair and shattering the hope and beauty of it.
Marriage is a beautiful thing Yes, very beautiful, you will live long if you get it right starting from you being the right person. Most times, we long for the right person but not ready to be the right person too. It is Vice versa What you sow is what you reap. Enough teachings, books and messages are out there for proper understanding of the school of marriage. But it seems the more of this, the worst result some keep having.
Many have even graduated too soon. You are not supposed to graduate from this. In this School of marriage Teachability, Listening and Attitude are greatly required. One of those things you will need as a person to establish a self worth magnitude is that you are teachable. How much time we have wasted trying to know everything to be right is why we are yet to be right.
We need to understand that Marriage is a Course, it's objectives should be greatly understood before embarking on it. If you are looking for where to exercise feelings, you will search forever, Feeling will deceive you. Being Teachable is a great effort. You won't be able to listen if you are not teachable, listening is not same as being still or quiet, Putting actions to every instruction makes listening complete.
You must be a Great listener to earn a Romantic marriage, the both of you are not warriors you must not always proof a point. You must not always win an argument, try and loose some. Attitude is everything you are what you do and do not what you say.