This was a well written post I must say. Well done.

The stand on name change has huge implications and it has to be that which they are ready for the implications.

Names are for identification, but for a lady she may choose to change to her husband's name as submission to him and to bear all that comes for or against him.

Isolation your name is like saying you can get into trouble and I ll not be affected

Or I don't like your name but just marry me.

The world systems understand and has made room for name changes. So anyone should find it easy to attach documents backing their change of name.