Finally, the year 2023 has come, and while I don't mean to sound harsh, I still feel compelled to point out that the majority of you guys are still single. Are you happy with your current situation? ...... I'm the only person without a partner among all of my pals. We're all going to witness the December 17th movie release of Avatar: The Way of Water. Who do you suppose is traveling alone because she is single? Without a doubt, I.
While my friends and a friend of mine are going with their boyfriends, I'm hoping I make it through that day..... I'm thinking about fabricating an excuse to avoid going to the movies since they won't have my time because they'll be busy talking with their boyfriends and I'll have to be alone until the movie is finished.
The question is now...... Am I better off single?
Because their friends are dating, some people get into partnerships when they wouldn't otherwise need to. One of the key reasons for the current increase in divorce rates is that many mistake what they think is love for lust, which they won't realize until their lust has been satisfied.
For me, being single is preferable since it gives me the freedom to focus my limited spare time on activities like writing articles, playing ping pong, football, video games, and going to the gym without interruptions. My limited spare time would have to be split between her and other things if I were to date someone, though.
Let's not even get started on distractions; instead, let's look at the main reasons why people date in this day and age....... Most individuals nowadays enter into relationships for the sake of having fun and wasting some of their time with the wrong person, and inevitably, one of the partners will be caught cheating, and the relationship will come to an end.
Because their friends are dating, some people get into partnerships when they wouldn't otherwise need to. One of the key reasons for the current increase in divorce rates is that many mistake what they think is love for lust, which they won't realize until their lust has been satisfied.
Final Thoughts
It's wonderful to be in the correct relationship, one that is based on more than just lust but also on love, trust, respect, honesty, control over one's wrath, dedication, and efficient communication.
You shouldn't be forced into a relationship just because some of your friends are. And just because things aren't working out in your friend's relationship doesn't mean they will in yours.
Being single is a difficult decision since you will have to deal with many sins. Being single is never simple, and being in a relationship is even more difficult.
Trust the process if you haven't yet discovered a better mate; if not, just remain single because becoming involved in a toxic relationship would make you regret it.
Thanks for reading 💙