刷到个扎心视频：贫穷的本质是拖延，拖延的本质是认知负荷和系统冲突。
比如：买颗白菜都要货比三家，为了蝇头优惠蹲在直播间几个小时，……每天在鸡毛蒜皮里耗光了决策力，这就是认知负荷超载。
还有人想存钱，却总在发薪日先买新鞋，回头又为房租焦虑。不是没规划，是 “当下爽” 的本能和 “长期省钱” 的理性在打架，系统冲突让行动卡在原地。
拖延像个黑洞，把改变的机会越拖越小：该学的技能没学，错过好的工作机会；该攒的钱没攒，遇事只能慌。
其实不用急着 “彻底改变”，将目标拆解，先从小事破局：每天花 10 分钟列个待办清单，把 “学技能” 拆成 “看一节网课”。将“做自媒体”拆成每周两段短视频，减轻认知负担，不熬夜，睡眠是意志力的电池，将明天在行动变成现在就干5分钟
让理性跑赢本能，慢慢就能把生活从 “拖垮” 拉向 “托举”。
I came across a thought-provoking video: The root of poverty lies in procrastination, and the root of procrastination is cognitive overload and internal conflict. For example: You spend ages comparing prices just to buy a cabbage, or hang around a live stream for hours waiting for a tiny discount. Wasting all your decision-making energy on trivial things like this—that’s cognitive overload.
Others want to save money, but they rush to buy new shoes right after getting paid, only to worry about rent later. It’s not that they have no plans; it’s that their instinct for "instant gratification" clashes with their reason to "save for the long run." This internal conflict leaves them stuck, unable to act.
Procrastination is like a black hole—it shrinks your chances to change little by little: You fail to learn the skills you need, so you miss out on good job opportunities; you don’t save the money you should, so you’re left panicking when problems arise.
You don’t need to "change completely" overnight. Break down your goals and start small: Spend 10 minutes each day making a to-do list. Turn "learn a skill" into "watch one online lesson." Turn "start a social media account" into "make two short videos a week." Ease your mental burden, and don’t stay up late—sleep is the battery for your willpower. Instead of saying "I’ll do it tomorrow," start with just 5 minutes right now.
Let reason win over instinct, and slowly you’ll pull your life from "being dragged down" to "being lifted up."