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Hello good evening to everyone out there, how are you all doing today? I hope your day was not too stressful for you...
A thank you to community for a well interesting and trending question as said, with a lot of benefits, I'll really learn from a lot of people's opinions.
So as for the question given to us which states...
what I'll do differently for my children
We all know about the Chrisland college story, we should know that such a girl was brought up in that manner, if she was brought up in that manner, that means her parents were involved one way or the other.
Children of nowadays, (including me) have a very large role to play in our journey of life, we want to flex, we want to see what is not yet time to see, we want to see and know behind the scenes, how it is been done and why?
So we can go extra mile to get answers to what ever we want, we want to acceptable to the environment and social world, but not to be acceptable to God.
When I become a parent, there are ways I'd love to creat relationship my children, I'd know most of their friends, I'll know most of their movement, I'll make them so free around me that they can tell me that they are in a relationship, I'll not scold them all the time, instead I'll correct them more than being harsh, I'll have their time, they'll have my time, I'll make them my best friend, I'll be their second best friend, (if they have an external best friend) I'll ask them what they want to do as a career when they grow up and I'll support them with all I have, I'll give and show them the very best of me, I'll make them know that they can come to me at anytime, I'll make sure they can't take or ask for opinion outside first, I'll teach them that they should put family first, I'll make them the happiest children in history and then, I won't stop them from the social media, but I'll make them know the right way to use them, they'll be proud and boast of the kind of parents they have...
But today, I'll parents don't have our time, we get all information we need from external relations, we see our parents like a wicked math teacher, we see them as people who are not ready to support us in what we want to do, some parents even give their children the kind of career they should pursue and even the kind of spouse they should marry, which I'll not do, I'll do otherwise.
Our children should be our pride, we should just take care of them in the right way so that when they grow up, they will not depart from it, tell grow to love and reciprocate that feelings back to us.
I really hope I've said at least one or two reasonable things which anyone can learn from. Thanks for viewing my blog, remain blessed, Zara loves you.