The scariest thing in life is to stop growing and grow towards the dark side
Once I had a friend, we met in elementary school, she is the top three in our class, very good at writing, is a very talented person, her composition essays are often written with great connotation, is also my enlightenment One of my classmates. Later, after middle school, I went to other places to go to middle school, and I haven't been in contact for ten years.
We met ten years later, only to realize that she is now a freelancer, with no career, lying at home and watching videos every day. Later, we learned more about it. It turned out that she didn’t want her major in university, but she wanted it at home. In order to protest against her family, she didn’t go out to work. I got tattoos, smoking and drinking to revenge her family, and asked me if I wanted to. I saw despair and indifference in her eyes, as if I had experienced a lot of unhappy things. I didn’t understand before. Now I seem to empathize with her, because I knew her before and knew that she was very sunny. Why has it become like this?
My buddies addicted to smoking, a day three packs
There was also a classmate from the university. She took a year’s absence from school because she was diagnosed with diabetes. Then she turned on the corpse lying mode. She lay in bed and played mobile phones, played mobile games and watched dramas every day on the grounds that she was unwell. I can't keep up, and I have to help her with tuition so that she can barely wander on the passing line.
I think these two friends are in a terrible state. They indulge themselves day after day. Time is wasted. I try to persuade them, but I can’t change them, but I think their experience is mine. Wake-up call, absolutely can't let myself stop growing one day, it's terrible.