Memoir Monday is a good catharsis for me remembering moments thanks to @EricVanceWalton's initiative, even though the 52 weeks are over we can complete the stories that for some reason were left behind. We have the opportunity to do so by saving in my blog from my life story how was that adventure of growing up living changes in many ways.
How is life different today compared
to when you were a child?
When we are children we never imagine all the processes that we go through along the stages as human beings we have to live, we are children and already, we laugh, we play, we see those around us as our only world, thinking that the world is up to there.
The story is different when the time comes to realize that everything changes, including the people in our home where we were born, some go to make their lives to other geographical areas with the theme of college, pursue studies at the university level, others leave this earthly world.
Today life can be described in stages, the school age where our task is to go to school, do our homework, play, play a lot, laugh, laugh a lot. No matter what. The high school stage when decisions have to be made: What am I going to do after high school? Listening to other people's stories about where they are going to college, or just being afraid without saying it because saying, “What am I going to do? is a sign of weakness.
Each stage is a change, to accept it is part of the development, if it is the opposite it seems to stay in a time and space without allowing us to grow as social beings. As many people say, they want to stay all their lives with mom and dad, although they really want us to thrive. There I say, they want to test if they really did their job of educating while we were at home, with the issue of how we face life with whatever comes our way.
It is a tough job when we grow in age and size, to realize that we are adults and they told us that being an adult implies a series of elements to be considered adults. Making decisions even if it is hard for others to accept them is a challenge...they want to, they feel without saying it do this or do that, that's what I want. It turns out that in the real world they always had their expectations of what we decided to do...
How much difference there is when I was a child and the experience of today, how many changes in every way, look back and say that phrase which is said with a little taste in the mouth for some bitter, for others very sweet, as is: we were happy without knowing it.
When did we stop laughing, when did we start to become hardened, what happened to our life project, how many changes, downs, ups we faced?
The important thing in this whole process of looking back is to discover ourselves, to understand ourselves, to accept ourselves, to understand what we have lived as part of our encountered experiences, precisely to forge the character that we must have for certain moments in order to keep our focus where we want it to be. To realize, to remember those moments for which we laughed a lot, to remember them today is important to find that essence and that difference between the childhood lived, plus today, some still discovering themselves, others understanding the essence, others accepting the present as it is.
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