Hi 
Most of us at Hive are shy, so you'll feel like at home here, hehe. It's exciting to read about the sacrifices made by your grandparents and yourself. You have a beautiful family, and your children will have learned the values that your grandparents once passed on to you. Nothing is easy, you're right. I'm glad you've found a job that fulfils you and allows you to watch them grow up close. I invite you to start your journey at Hive by exploring the communities I've linked below. Wish you luck!
Tips and information as a Hive newbie here: newbie guide.
Communities you might like that are part of the OCD Communities Incubation Program. Important: read their rules and post in the one that fits your content.
Have a good day!
RE: Not Born Rich but Raised Rich in Love: How Hardship, Faith, and Determination Helped Me Build a Life for My Family