We lived in a world and in a generation whereby people dress the way they wants and doesn't want anybody to cautious or correct them if they doesn't dress properly and decent. People felt they buy the clothes and shoes and whatever they are wearing with their own money but have forgotten that one is address the way he or she dresses. Yes, people doesn't have to know your heart and minds first before judging you in a world we all lived today. A thief or kidnappers for example can dress very decent to an environment to survey the areas and finds out who and who have money living in that particular areas and people will never know that person is a thief or kidnappers because by mere looking the person's dressing decent and neatly doesn't look like a thief even though is a thief. Because nobody knows the hearts or minds of another people except God, that's why people judge people especially by mere looking at the kind of dress people's dress these days.
But fashion have taken over the world, this generation is full of different types of fashion and have drawn so many people lives from decency and modest. I will be sharing my younger sister fashion experience with you guys today. Her name is Miracle Emmanuel and 21 years old currently. She loves fashion so much and the kind of fashion she brings out from her mind is awesome and topnotch. She loves native wears, she knows different styles and how to make a beautiful sticth or designs for different occasions. Whenever she's going to their school party or reunion gathering, she knows the kind of dress she will wear . And if is it wedding, church or music concerts, she knows the kind of clothes that will fits into every occasion.
A lot of people have admired her fashion sense and not just us the family members only.This is a lady that knows her worth and dignity, and values and respect her body. She wears clothes that covers her nakedness and make people sees her with respect and values.
This particular day, she told me she will be going for her friend's birthday celebration in the evening and I thought she will wear something big, like coming out on native wears makes her looks more beautiful and decent to me, I thought so. But I saw her on polo t-shirt and jean trouser with a white flat shoe and white small handbag.
When she came out of her room and I saw her on this dress, I nod my head and smiled at her fashion sense. I asked her why she didn't wear native dress or an English wears like gown. She said wearing native wears will be so matured considering the fact the kind of people will be meet at the birthday celebration place are her old school friends and peer group. So wearing this simple outfit will make her feel comfortable and run around with her old school friends easier.
I was amazed with the kind of thought she had before deciding this particular dress she chose that day. Her reason for wearing this dress that day was well explained and understood by me. I have seen so many ladies that likes fashion and into this fashion Lifestyle has wear clothes that exposing their body parts and make some of them uncomfortable if they're in the midst of elderly people. But my sister fashion sense is different, knowing exactly the kind of clothes to wear to every events and occasion and not wearing any clothes that exposing her body outside is a prove she's a well trained lady who valued and respect her body.
Those ladies wearing clothes exposing their body parts outside in the name of fashion are actually doing such to attract opposite sex or trying to prove a point among themselves. As good as fashion is, it can build you up and can still destroy your life and bring you down.
Any lady that dresses half naked or wears clothes that exposing her body parts outside will be sees and regards as prostitute or weird wild lady or rather a chéap slot even if she isn't doing or into prostitution. But because of her dressing that doesn't shows decency and modesty, people will assumed she's into prostitution because of her naked dressing.
This is one of my sister favorite picture I love so much. I remembered that day, she told me she met a new photographer at someone's wedding and the man gave her his number and directed her to come and have free shots on his studio. Like, meeting a photographer for the first time and asked you to come over to his studio and have free shots. She won't pay anything, just come and snap for free. Why? because the photographer saw the way she dress abd how beautiful she looked on her dress at the a wedding and took a photo of her. I told her to go and have free shots then, perhaps the photographer will use her pictures for modeling. She went and after some hours she sent this two pictures that day . This pictures are some of that pictures the photographer took of her and started working on it. It was an amazing experience for my sister and I saw how happy and excited she was to have such an opportunity.
My advice to young lovable fashionable ladies outside, you must not dress half naked or indecent before you can get a man to like you or people to appreciates you. Dress decent, been beautiful and modest in your dressing and people will appreciate you for it. Keep on with the decency and modesty always.