Good day hives! I Hope you feel loved and grateful Today, I will be sharing with you the celebration of life, one of my best friends and Why we made a surprise for her.Anyways let me introduced to all of you my Bipolar Girls
I'm writing this because I care about her deeply, and recently, I've noticed that she change . She haven't been the usual friend of mine, and while I don't want to pry, I want her to know that I'm here no matter what.
It may not always be easy to talk about, but I want her to know that having a mental health is more common than you think. Just like our physical health, our mental health needs attention and care. It's okay not to be okay, and in fact, admitting it is the first step towards feeling better.
I understand that mental health issues can manifest in various ways. You might be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, withdrawn, or have difficulty concentrating. These are just some of the symptoms, and each person experiences them differently.
It's important to remember that you're not alone in this. Millions of people around the world struggle with mental health challenges, and there are resources available to help. Seeking professional help doesn't make you weak, it shows strength and courage. Therapists and counselors are trained to provide support, guidance, and tools to manage your symptoms and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
I know the thought of seeking help can be daunting, and you might feel hesitant to open up about your struggles. But here's the thing, I want to be there for you on this journey, however you need me to be.
If you're comfortable talking, I'm here to listen without judgment. You can vent, cry, or simply share your thoughts and experiences.
Remember, I'm not a professional, but I can be a friend who listens, provides a safe space, and encourages you to seek the help you deserve. you are not defined by your mental health issue. You are a strong, resilient, and amazing person, and I will be here, standing by your side, every step of the way.
Sometimes might be tough but with the support and guidance of your family and friends You can surpass everything.
Years back,in 2021 One of bestfriend experience anxiety due to family and financially problem that she been through. She really felt devastated, we really worried about her mental health,And how we can make her back on track , where she was happy and seeing life a wonderful to lived.
Her anxiety last until now,
Mental health is really a biggest impact on our friendship because alot of things change.
Way back September 2022 her mother admitted to hospital due to cardiac arrest but her mother was safe now ,in that situation you really need someone to lean on,We know we are here her friends to support her,but in times like that you badly need her husband but fortunately her husband got to abroad due to his jog ,her husband was a seaman that time until now .
Why, I was sharing you this because this friend of mine was like a sister on me ,she help in every ways she can , from being a second mother to my kids, saving me financially especially when everytime my father will admitted she we come to me and give me hand and we are here for her always, maybe we are not sister or relative by blood but we are sister from soul.
Last September 2023 Was her birthday, me and our other friends we're organized a birthday surprise for her,Since her husband is still onboarding,We planned secretly we made a Group chat we're we can planned the said birthday surprise,
One of our friend had a multicab ( a filipino transportation) we decided in the multicab we're we going to make the said birthday surprise,
Since her husband sister is one of our friend we decided that she is the one who will going to brought honey to the place, me and thea brought cheap flowers and a cake We just buy according to our budget since we can't afford bouquet of flowers, pricey gift or gift but one thing for sure she will be happy for our surprise .
After we bought all the things that we needed from cake,flowers, banners and balloons we immediately prepared the surprise so the multicab was already in the place where we chose to do the surprise which was in front of the ocean located in the naga baywalk.
Then we blew out all the balloons and put the banner on and after that, we chatted to ask where they were already, she answered that they were near us, so me , althea and my son, while she walking toward us slowly came to her to give flowers one by one. then we walked toward the multi-cab but we turned off the light of the multi-cab so that she could see the surprise after she got into the multi-cab
The surprise started the moment she entered the multi-cab, she already cried even though she had not already gotten one footstep toward the stairs of the multi-cab
We may not be stable mentally but always remember that people are waiting and wanting you the most challenges may come and go strong.