Before anything else, I'm happy to be back here in HIVE after looking for the keys. I mean, I lost which of my email addresses I've sent my keys as I cleaned my phone. I remembered I opened my account in my son's phone but his phone can't connect to internet or should I say was not working well as the web browsers were all black and can't even view any websites even youtube even how much I refreshed the tab. I asked my wife if she received any of my keys but she didn't and even reviewed her emails and our messages in messenger. Where did I retrieved my keys? Well, I found it on my Deped email drafts, lol. I'm just fortunate that I can still open my Deped email coz I've heard a news about it to be expired and won't be working. So, now, I secured my keys and even wrote on my memo notebook where I saved it for me not to forget.
Anyway, this is not my topic for this post. It will be about my wife which is an entry for this month of LOVE. I just shared to you how I came back after a long time of not being active. I just hope I can catch up. By the way, here I am at this early hour. Wide awake while putting back our son asleep and watching my wife if she's already fine and have no fever.
MY WIFE
Describe that person in 3 words.
(LOVING, PERSEVERE, SWEET)
- LOVING
She's a loving wife and mom. Not just that, she's also a loving sister and a daughter. What I loved about her is how she gave love to her love ones. She'll surely pour her everything to them even which sometimes made me want to protect her at all cost because she easily get hurt because of loving so much. She's so pure and down to earth. Though she get mad with me and some small things, yet she's easy to deal with and make her happy. I know why she gets mad sometimes as she don't want to make her love ones out of the right path in life. She's a loving mother, I witnessed it a lot. She's always worried for our son especially his future. She have a lot of plans for our son which made me always say HOW BLESSED I AM FOR HER TO BE MY CHILD'S MOM. - PERSEVERE
Since she have a lot of dreams in life: dream for her family (parents and siblings) and for us (me and our son), she's so persevere in making it possible. Sometimes, those dreams made her frustrated and pressured, that's why I need to be with her side to let her know I am here and she can rely on me. I kept telling her to be easy with her self and believe in "Everything have their own timeline." - SWEET
She's like a candy that once you tasted her love and cares, you will be addicted. I was loved by my parents but then the love I received from my wife is different. Especially with things that she supported me and never let me feel I am alone with the fight in life. She stands as my shield and strength in my fight which sometimes I felt like I'm vulnerable. Never I thought that I'll be this weak and strong at the same time because of this woman beside me.
How did you meet?
We met during our college days. I was a second year student and she's first year. She came into our boarding house where her cousin boarded. And she also boarded there as well in the right wing of the boarding house where the girls are staying. We also were the same in course and major which made us close enough as we were in the same organization.
What were your first impression when you met this person for the first time?
Honestly, I've had a sour first impression of my wife as I first met her. I found her so pretty and smart but...Why? Because she's so friendly and smiled a lot but find her smart. And I found it flirty. The way she dressed also is not my type because she wears shorts, lol. But when I get to know her, I realized how the words " Don't judge a book by it's cover." because I found her so pure and high standards in terms of being a woman. Why? Though she smiles and approachable, once she noticed that someone liked her and want her to be their girl, she easily finds way to stay away and won't talked to them and drop them like a hot potato. I've heard when we were not yet friends when one of our boardmates courted her and dumped him without letting him to say the words, lol. She's friendly but not easy to get. I've learned that she was a great dumper. And I am proud that I AM HER FIRST BOYFRIEND at her age of 22.
An anecdote that you remember between the two of you?
It's always fresh in my mind when she said that we should not have a line of 2.0 grades. She was really serious that time and when I looked at her face, she really was like want to dumped me the reason she challenged me. I thought she was just testing me and I laugh and even say deal. She smiled so wide as if she's thinking of something that she'll win. So, I showed her that I don't want to lose her. And it was the time that we both comparing our grades until we graduate.
What gifts does the person like to receive and what gifts would you like to receive?
She don't like to accept material things especially pricey things, that's why I always gave her written and letters or handmade things when we don't have yet our son. She loves those because she said she found those gestures and things pure and genuine. now that we have our son, she loves seeing gifts gave to our son. She said that it's better for me to give our son's needs as my gift to her. But then, I still gave things that will make her happy for her to know that I still love to court her even if we already have a little one.
What I want to receive from her is not the material things but her love and trust. Yes, she trusted me and that matters most and I won't break. Her love and all matters than things. Sometimes she bought me things especially things that I usually don't buy but needed. The thoughtfulness of her always touched me since she knew what I need even without uttering a word to her that I needed it.
How important is it to you to have met this person?
It's so important to me because she made me what I am today. The way she supported me with things and made me proud of myself. She went through things with me that my parents didn't. She also helped me with things I want to build especially a kind of family that I want to have which is not same as what I've been through when I was child. She gave me the family that I dreamed of. She gave me a reason to hope with things for us. And also, she gave me the direction in life and a purpose to continue. I don't know how and what will be my life without her and our son.
What do you admire about that person?
I admire her a lot. I admire her for being a good daughter and a mom. When we were in college, I knew to myself that she will be a good mom in the future because she's a good daughter. I saw how she dance with the story of her life and achieved things slowly. I saw her cried a lot but stood up stronger after. I saw how vulnerable and strong woman she is at the same time. When she loved, she pour.
TOGETHER WE BUILD AND FIGHT
So, above all I mentioned above, all I can say is that my WIFE is the symbol of light to my life. Light when I met her and lived with her. A lot of things happened and we learned. We were young when we decided to build a family but we stood up and show the world that we were responsible enough of the things we get into.
All I pray is that I will able to be a good husband and a father to our son. And give their needs in life and stay beside them in reaching our goals.
Now, since it's a Month of Love, I am now again thinking of what surprise will I do to make her happy that day. Since last year, I bought her foods and teddy bear together with diapers and milk of our son, I need to make another surprise that will make her happy even if it doesn't needs money.
PS. The person in photos above were us. I just need to scroll in her account in fb to get some since she have lots of post there and some photos are not in my phone now coz I cleaned it.
So, this is my entry to join the party this month. I hope you found this story interesting. I would also love to read more about love of some hive users here. Happy weekend and Sunday to all.