Hi there hive, It's me again jexellencia. I just want to share my recent happenings in life. We all know that people come into our lives unpredictably— I mean, some people come into your life unexpectedly. Despite the unpredictability: you're grateful because they came. The memories that are being shared— is very unique. These people turn to your best friends and sisters or brothers. You're very comfortable around them: you're not afraid to show your flaws to them, and you'll find yourself sharing those ups and downs without judgment from these people. However, due to this— you forget that everything is temporary: Time will make it change.
Recently, The people that I used to love are fading into silence. I used to love them because they showed a unique and different love— I believe that everyone can love others in their own unique way. Unluckily, they changed. They became less of understandability—which turned into the reigns of egotistical behavior. These people used their pride during misunderstandings. This leads to high conflict within our relationships. I just can't imagine: why I am not allowed to get disappointed while these people are allowed to do the things that make me disappointed, and then make reasoning for it. When I get upset it feels like I am the problem for being felt that way, my excuses are invalidated while these people validate their own. They are lack of consideration. A consideration that is very important in our everyday life— how could they forget that? Aside from this— when we have a small argument that is very easy to understand and take it into consideration they will invalidates your point and then validates their views. If only both sides would understand each side then we could avoid such conflicts. The picture portray how lonely and depressing I was during generating the possible conclusion of their actions.
As a college student— it is very hard to find real friends. You should be more careful in choosing to have lively studies. I believe that good friends influenced to your studies. College is hard— no words can explain how hard college is. Therefore, it is very important to choose the right friends for you. That friend has been your companion throughout the years.
In my case: I slowly discovered some people are not meant to me. Who is my real companion? However, I felt pity for those people who lower their selves just to please people— like them, I used to be a people pleaser to be the 1st option. It is not good, it can ruin your dignity.
Promises and principles are the greatest lies that person will ever tell. When someone tell their promises and principles to me— I will nod my head to show euphemism. "Are they aware of what they're doing?" My generelization to this thought of mine is that— No promises will make you perfect: only actions do.
Despite the unpredictability of their actions, I am still grateful to have a worth memories with them. I am forever grateful to be their friend in a short time. That short time is full of happiness and sadness that strengthen our friendship. However, the wisdom fading in silence slowly broke our friendship. Because of these circumstances, I learned numerous lessons: first, everything in life is temporary, not permanent. Second, because life is permanent— you should treasure the memories with the people you loved at that time even though in the present they become strangers. Third, despite the disappointments: you should still be kind to others— everyone worth of respect. And lastly, don't carry resentment when moving forward— it's too heavy. Instead, surrender it to God, he will clear your mind and remove toxicity that's would be all thank you.