WHAT'S FRIENDSHIP TO YOU?
Friendship is very big part of my entire existence, at every stage in my life, I get the opportunity of meeting great individuals whom I share my daily life with in mutual love and respect. Telling jokes amidst laughter.
Good thing is, I have been blessed with the best of them. I have friends, very close ones about 3 of them, I want to introduce this two to you first, they were my course mates and friends.
MEET MY TWO FRIENDS FLORA AND MARYJANE
I have been friends with them since 2018 we got admission into the University till now, we were course mates, studied psychology at Unizik. Are we on a trio friendship? No.
I am friends with each of them on a personal basis. The two are not friends with each, they just get close for my sake. So I think proximity is not often a criteria, there has to be a connection to necessitate friendship.
Knowing them has been a blessing I must say, they were one of the reasons I look forward to going to class everyday back them, Reason being that, I'm sure to either get gist from flora or Maryjane depending on whom I chose to sit with, there's just no dull moment being around them. And you can't practically survive in my class in isolation. You need people who got your back and here's mine. They made everyday worth it. Being around them brings peace and happiness. They lend shoulder to cry on when its tough and cheer you when you win.they have been very supportive every step of the way. They were and still is a blessing.
So, Between the two I think I'm very much closer to M.J she's the one everyone in class sees as my closer friend, we sit together, hold hands while walking and always laughing loud in class.
Let me write about the kind of friendship I have with each one of them, trust me, it would be worth your read. I am very big on love and friendship and I value and treasure what we each share.
MEET FLORA
Flora my flower is more a partner and fellow comrade. We started from visiting a course mate whose lodge is just closest yours. Flora's lodge was next after mine, so I frequent hers as my second place, she has no roommate and there were plenty foodstuffs in her kitchen, that's something I love seeing when I visit people, because why not. Food is a necessity, lols.
Funny enough, with all those food stored there she doesn't like to cook.
I volunteered as a chef so we can eat while we gist, gossip share ideas and study.
This was how our journey began. From there we planned to take over the school through leadership, she was very supportive in mine while I in hers, we held several positions in school from department, faculty to SUG.
This was possible because we were both like minds and very passionate in leadership, we strategize together and carry each others matter for head until success is achieved. Thankfully, we never lost in any position we vyed for. We were just two dangerous combo in the game.
what more to ask than a partner, soul sister and friend like Flora. She's a one man Squad
HERE'S MARYJANE
M.J was my first friend in the university, the fact that we share same name brought us closer,yeah I'm Maryjane also. M.j is more like a mother to me, ever caring, conscious and true to self. One person I know that sticks like glue, ever present and thoughtful.
The way she talks and carries herself is just one of the many things I love about her, I always felt like my mother came to school with me in her. The type of friendship I have with her is one that is genuine, we both look out for each other, We extend hands of love and care to each other, share our worries and give solution. There's this peace being around her gives me. If M.j stands by you, be sure the whole world is rooting for you. The way she handles things fascinates me, I have learnt a lot from her personality.
So in our final year, she got married and the friendship was distanced a bit emotionally, but each time she reaches out it feels like nothing ever changed. We reminisce on the good old days and laugh it out, I always miss her and those times.
Since friendship is about building lasting connection, I don't think I can talk about myself better without bringing them in the picture, they made living life easy and a place of happiness, peace and Abundance of love.