Today I came across a tiktok page and basically, the tiktok video was about how the world is conspiring to make life amazing and also about the word paranoia and I'm sure we've all heard this word before, and the word paranoia is the thought that the whole world is out to get us or somebody is out to get you. It's weird though but it actually do Happen and i was a victim of it at a younger age and while growing up, i get to know more people that act this way and this makes them not to accept anything eatable from strangers even from neighbors, just Incase of poisoning or whatever thwt might harm them.
Life always have it's opposite side just as we know and there's always an opposite for everything just as there's rich and poor also light and darkness and for paranoia the opposite is Pronoia and in this case, 'it means the world is for us and everything that happens to you, is for your greater good". Have you ever noticed that whenever bad things happens, good things always follow. It's like a law of nature whereby when it's dry season, rainy season will surely come afterwards.
Example of good coming after bad experience is a friend of mine that experienced heartbreak at her early stage in life and she literally gave up on love and she told me she wouldn't try it again and right now she have found the person that really loved her and made her significant unlike before and this kind of situation wouldn't have happened if not for the heartbreak..... Have y'all ever wondered whether all the things happening now are just to get us better and developed to our better self and every challenges is for a reason.
Think of a hardest time in your life, that you wish you won't ever go through it again, maybe 5 or 10years ago and check everything you've learnt during those process to become who you are really and you would realize that they are part of your development and the question is are you grateful you went through those challenges?..... Truly it's not good to go through these things but what's great is what came out of it and what taht experience taught you and also what it made you to become. You wouldn't have been the kind of person you're now if you didn't go through some certain life experiences.
When you start to look your life through the lens of pronoia in the sense that you think those challenges that you experienced like break up, being cheated on, a death in the family, job loss, being scammed whatever it might be, if we look at those challenges as if they are placed in our lives for our benefits, for us to learn and grow and we are also forced to look at every person the exact same way..... Instead of looking at those challenges in. Bad way, endeavor to learn something out of it.
I remember when i started my fashion journey, i always compare myself with my colleagues that are doing well when i should be focusing on how i would be better than my previous. I really didn't know i was doing myself much damage and i didn't notice earlier until i started realizing that i still remain at the same point i did last year and this was continuous for about 3 years. My life was really not going well until i started appreciating my steps and whatever win i achieved, whether it's a little win or massive one, i always appreciate it with same attitude.
I realize life gives you what you want and this is only possible when you prepare yourself for it and when the opportunity comes, you're prepared for it and that's what i learnt during my starting days in fashion. I missed some opportunities not because i didn't have access to it but it was because i wasn't prepared for it. Those days, i will always think that life is so unfair and it sucks because it favors others and diminishes others like me.
You know what, everything in life sucks sometimes, sometimes it might be unbearable to the extent you might be suicidal but just believe in yourself and trust the process that it would make you better and sooner or later you will realize the value of going through it.
Thanks for reading ☺️☺️☺️💕 and I hope you have an amazing day❤️