From hate to love, the beginning of a new story? [ENG/ESP]

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Del odio al amor ¿el comienzo de una nueva historia?

Hola a todo, aquí yo nuevamente, contando más de mi. En esta ocasión quiero hablarles de mi matrimonio y mi relación de largos años. Ale y yo nos conocimos cuando éramos niños, ¿Cuándo? No lo sabemos. Éramos tan pequeños que ninguno lo recuerda, pero tenemos la idea de que fue cuando teníamos entre 5 y 7 años.

Vivíamos en la misma zona, el solía jugar con mis primos, por eso nos conocimos, aunque en aquel tiempo no éramos amigos solo conocidos. Nos hicimos amigo o mas bien enemigos cuando ambos estábamos en el coro de la iglesia. Teníamos entre 8 y 10 años. En esta época no nos llevábamos muy bien, el me molestaba mucho, se burlaba de mi y mas de una vez me hizo llorar por las cosas que me decía.

Pero no hablaremos de esa época inmadura, ya que el enfoque nos lo llevaremos al inicio de la relación, entre los 14 y 16 años.

Todo comenzó por una prima, a quien le gustaba el primo de Ale. Mi prima estaba un poquito loca y hacia todo por llamar la atención de ese chico. Un día mi prima se quedo a dormir en mi casa, y se puso a llamar a este chico. Durante la llamada entro en pánico cuando su enamorado le empezó a preguntar el motivo de la llamada, y como yo estaba en ese momento con ella apoyándola, le dije cúlpame a mi (yo soy su prima mayor y la quería como proteger para que no quedara mal) lo que no me esperaba era que ella dijera que yo la mande a llamar para pedir el numero de teléfono de Alejandro. En ese momento yo solo quería matarla. Ella no entendía mucho y le explique que ale y yo no teníamos muy buena relación, recuerdo que le dije “él me odia”.

Al día siguiente, yo estaba muy tranquila viendo tv en mi habitación, cuando entra otra prima al cuarto y me dice “el pollo te esta buscando”. Juro que me asusté y dije eso es por culpa de Daniela, no quería salir, estaba algo asustada. Pero mi prima Luisa me convenció y salí, cuando llego al comedor lo veo hablando con mis hermanas, no recuerdo mucho solo se que me pregunto por la llamada y yo le respondí “fue Daniela, ella pidió tu numero para preguntarte algo del cole, no se”. Yo pensé que se molestaría, pero no fue así, me pidió mi numero, el cual no le di, le dije que no tenia teléfono, me pidió mi Facebook para agregarme el cual tampoco le di. Todo estaba muy extraño para mi. No entendía como este niño estaba tan interesado en mi solo por una llamada.

Poco a poco, empezó a ir a mi casa, me llevaba dulces y trataba de acercarse a mi, yo completamente confundida, no entendía su actitud, así que lo evitaba. Las personas a mi alrededor ya empezaban a notar los sentimientos de ale hacia mi. Por lo cual me molestaban, ah no les conté que yo soy la mayor, él tenia 14 años y yo 16.

Un día, planeamos ir todos los primos al cine, y Daniela me convenció para que le pidiera a ale que él y su primo fuera con nosotros. Ale acepto ir con nosotros la verdad fue muy sencillo, solo le dije y él aceptó rápidamente.

Llego el día del cine, y ya yo me imaginaba que todos se pondrían de acuerdo para darle la oportunidad a ale de pedirme que fuera su novia, así que le pedí a mi hermana menor que no se despegara de mi, y que se sentara a mi lado en la sala del cine. Yo me senté en una esquina y mi hermanita en medio de los dos. Ya a media película ale hablo con mi hermana mayor para que convenciera a nuestra hermana que le diera su asiento. Mi hermana mayor no lo logro, pero él encontró como comprarla con dulces y al final intercambiaron puesto.

En el momento cumbre de la película cuando Shrek estaba a punto de besar a Fiona para que se acordara de él, pues que el niño se me declara. Yo solo quería desaparecer no sabia que decir, así que mi respuesta fue “espera que acabe la película”. Al terminar la película todos estaban curiosos de saber mi respuesta a lo que yo dije “¿tengo que responder ahora? Él me dijo que no, que me tomara mi tiempo.

Tres días después un 19 de julio del 2010, le dije que sí. ¿Por qué le dije que sí? La verdad, no lo se, creo que su actitud me fue atrayendo poco a poco, la forma en la que me mostraba su interés, sus disculpas por como me trataba de niña (que según sus disculpas él lo hacia porque yo le gustaba mucho y no sabia como llamar mi atención).

Creo que poco a poco me fue enamorando, sin darme cuenta o simplemente siempre me gusto, y por eso me sentía mal cuando me molestaba.

Debo confesar que yo también tenia un plan de venganza, yo quería enamorarlo más y dejarlo a los 3 meses. Pero algo cambio y la que termino más embobada fui yo.

Gracias por leer mi post

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Hello everyone, here I am again, telling you more about myself. This time I want to tell you about my marriage and my relationship of many years. Ale and I met when we were kids, when? We don't remember. We were so little that nobody remembers it, but we have an idea that it was when we were around 5 and 7 years old.

We lived in the same area, he used to play with my cousins, that's why we met, although at that time we were not friends just acquaintances. We became friends or rather enemies when we were both in the church choir. We were between 8 and 10 years old. At that time we didn't get along very well, he teased me a lot, he made fun of me and more than once he made me cry because of the things he said to me.

But we will not talk about that immature period, since we will focus on the beginning of the relationship, between the ages of 14 and 16.

It all started because of my cousin, who liked Ale's cousin. My cousin was a little crazy and did everything to get the attention of this boy. One day my cousin slept over at my house, and she started calling this guy. During the call she panicked when her boyfriend started to ask her the reason for the call, and since I was with her at the time supporting her, I told her to blame me (I am her older cousin and I wanted to protect her so she wouldn't look bad) what I didn't expect was that she said that I sent her to call her to ask for Alejandro's phone number. At that moment I just wanted to kill her. She didn't understand much, and I explained to her that Ale and I didn't have a very good relationship, I remember I told her “he hates me”.

The next day, I was very quiet watching TV in my room, when another cousin came into the room and said, “the chicken is looking for you”. I swear I got scared and said that's Daniela's fault, I didn't want to go out, I was a little scared. But my cousin Luisa convinced me and I went out, when I got to the dining room I saw him talking to my sisters, I don't remember much, I only know that he asked me about the call and I answered “it was Daniela, she asked for your number to ask you something about school, I don't know”. I thought he would get upset, but he didn't, he asked me for my number, which I didn't give him, I told him I didn't have a phone number, he asked me for my Facebook to add me which I didn't give him either. It was all very strange to me. I didn't understand how this boy was so interested in me just for a phone call.

Little by little, he started coming to my house, bringing me candy and trying to get close to me, I was completely confused, I didn't understand his attitude, so I avoided him. The people around me were already starting to notice Ale's feelings towards me. I didn't tell them that I was the oldest, he was 14 and I was 16.

One day, we planned to go all the cousins to the movies, and Daniela convinced me to ask Ale to go with us. Ale agreed to go with us, the truth was very simple, I just told him and he quickly accepted.
The day of the movie came, and I imagined that everyone would agree to give Ale the opportunity to ask me to be his girlfriend, so I asked my younger sister to stay close to me, and to sit next to me in the movie theater. I sat in one corner and my little sister sat in the middle of the two of us. Halfway through the movie, Ale talked to my older sister to convince her to give him her seat. My older sister didn't succeed, but he found a way to buy her with candy and in the end, they exchanged seats.

At the climax of the movie when Shrek was about to kiss Fiona so that she would remember him, well the boy proposes to me. I just wanted to disappear, I didn't know what to say, so my answer was “wait until the end of the movie”. At the end of the movie everyone was curious to know my answer to which I said “do I have to answer now? He said no, to take my time.

Three days later on June 19, 2010, I said yes to him. Why did I say yes to him? The truth, I don't know, I think his attitude was attracting me little by little, the way he showed me his interest, his apologies for how he treated me as a girl (which according to his apologies he did it because he liked me a lot and didn't know how to get my attention).

I think that little by little I was falling in love, without realizing it or I just always liked him, and that's why I felt bad when he bothered me.I must confess that I also had a revenge plan, I wanted to make him fall in love more and leave him after 3 months. But something changed and the one who ended up more enraptured was me.

Thank you for reading my post

All photographs shown are my property taken from the Memory Chest.
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