El dia miércoles (02-07) celebramos en casa de mi mama, le canté cumpleaños con mis tíos, su abuela, sus tías abuelas y sus padrin@s, se comio su torta, compartimos un rato mas en familia hasta finalizar el dia y Roraima muy contenta los cumplió feliz.
06-07) cayó sábado, tenía una semana haciendo las cosas, decoraciones, compras, pasapalos, todo un corre corre, por falta de planificación y por querer hacerlo a lo grande, fue un estress total
sin embargo recibí ayuda de mis compadres y amigos, cuando hice las invitaciones con temática de monster inc había un total de 12 niños y 39 adultos,llego la hora convocada en las invitaciones y nosotros aun limpiando, decorando y haciendo los pasapalos para la celebración,
llegaron los primeros invitados, nadie se había arreglado y tampoco estaba la casa ordenada, llegó la dueña de la casa, es decir, mi mamá, y empezó a ver todo, a criticar como siempre,a quejarse sin ofrecer su ayuda para terminar todo rapido
pero no se dio cuenta de que no era el dia para decirlas, me estrese mas de lo que ya estaba y empecé a poner mi cara, respire hondo y me obligue a calmarme ya que era un dia especial.
Poco a poco empezaron a llegar los invitados, no era ni la mitad de los que había invitado, de 12 niños solo llegaron 2 más la cumplañera eran 3 niños.
A la niña la disfrazamos de Boo y nosotros compramos el traje de Mike Wazowski y James P. Sullivan, esa era la sorpresa para los niños y a pesar de que habían poquitos el alma de la fiesta fueron los disfraces, fotos y risas desde que salieron los personajes.
Sin embargo los comentarios entre familias hicieron que el ambiente se tornara un poco tenso e hipócrita y no pudo fluir como tenía que ser, admito que en parte también fue culpa mía y de Dani, ya que éramos los anfitriones encargados de unir, atender y presentar a las familias ya que era la primera vez que algunos de los invitados se veían.
Al final del dia lo importante eran los niños, y que mi hija compartiera con niños de su edad, entre juegos y musica una vez mas la niña paso genial su cumpleaños
Para concluir solo por esta vez les puedo decir que hacer una fiesta en casa de niños sin planificación y a la buena de Dios es la locura y el reto más grande que puede existir.
Por eso, y por recibir consejos de personas experimentadas en el tema de la celebración he decidido que los próximos cumpleaños de Roraima Isabel serán en un parque, o en un salón de fiestas.
Espero sus comentarios, o si quieren darme algún consejo, para conocernos mejor, o interactuar un poco más con ustedes, bienvenido sea.
sin mas que agregar, les envío un abrazo virtual, se despide ladyclavel
Hello, my dear readers from here your writer ladyclavel.
my little girl turned one year old
Roraima Isabel was born on July 02, 2024, as it fell day of the week I celebrated it on two different days, the day Wednesday (02) I did it at my mom's house, I sang her birthday with my uncles, her grandmother, her aunt's grandmothers, and her godparents, she ate her cake, we shared a time and fulfilled them happily.
the day (06) of July fell Saturday, it should be noted that the party was with a Monster Inc. theme, I had a week doing things, decorations, shopping, handrails, and a whole race, for lack of planning and for wanting to do it big, it was total stress, I received help from my companions and friends when I made the invitations there were a total of 12 children and 39 adults, arrived the day and we still cleaning, decorating and making handrails for the celebration,
arrived the first guests and no one was ready, no one had arranged and neither was the house tidy, arrived the owner of the house, that is, my mom, and began to see everything, to criticize as always, and to say things without realizing that it was not the day to say them, I was more stressed than I was already and I started to put my face...
Little by little the guests began to arrive, it was not even half of those I had invited, of 12 children only 2 arrived and the birthday girl was 3 children.
The girl was dressed as Boo and we bought the costume of Mike Wazowski and James P. Sullivan, which was a surprise for the children although there were few the soul of the party were the costumes, photos, and laughter since the characters came out, however, the comments between families made the atmosphere become a little tense and hypocritical and could not flow as it had to be
I admit that in part it was also my fault and Dani's fault, as we were the hosts in charge of uniting, attending and introducing the families as it was the first time that some of the guests saw each other.
But the important thing was the children, they had a lot of fun, I made sure that the little ones shared a time, played, and had a good time.
The next day we had to do the most boring thing in adult life after a house party, which was to clean and organize the house.
I left Daniel and some friends who had stayed at home and the girl to clean, while I went with Ysaidy and Jan to her grandmother's house to do the laundry, when I returned, I found the house like a silver cup. Talk to Daniel and my fellow parents about the pros and cons of having a party at the house of a perfectionist and cleaning-obsessive person who is my mother.
Only for this time can I tell you that to throw a party in a children's house without planning and for the good of God is the greatest madness that man has ever invented. Therefore, from experience and advice from people who already have children older than me
I have decided that the next birthday Roraima Isabel will be in a park, It is easier and less stressful, and there is no need to clean, or organize much, and bad comments about the state of the house are avoided.
I look forward to your comments, or if you want to give me any advice, to get to know us better, or interact with you welcome
so say goodbye and send them a virtual hug