FRIENDSHIP
Ten letters, one word, but thousands of laughters, memories, bond , jokes, both tears of joy and sadness, unity and the love are built.
Now, let me ask you. Do you have friends you trusted the most? How are you now, still close to each other or things fell apart between you? Well you're so blessed if you already had friends you trusted the most , you find comfortable to be with and still remain on your side. There's no perfect in every friendship or only stick in happiness, different challenges will test us to see how strong the friendship was.
Hola lovely hivers, it's and I'm thrilled to share another experience of mine. This blog is all about the legality celebration of Eliza and how we reunited again , I and Eliza haven't always been the closest, even separating apart to the point of feeling like strangers and different perspectives pulled us in different directions . But in the end one event brought us back together. Are you all excited? Here's the story!
Allow me to share my little recap on how I've met this debutant. Eliza became my classmate from grade 7 to 10, but our friendship blossomed when we were in grade 9. We danced on TikTok, bought our snacks together or even had lunch together. Our friendship continued to grow until grade 10. Our section feels like a family to me. Lots of memories and friendships are built that I always cherish until now. But one day everything changed, we didn't do the same thing like what we did before, she became close to others. However, I'm still glad that I saw her happy even though we are not the reason behind it. We didn't argue physically, we only became strangers sometimes ,yet still talking but not like before that had spark. When we reached our Senior High School,we separated ways, we're not classmates anymore since we are taking different strands, I chose ABM and she chose HUMSS. Everything went new, we don't see each other often and maybe because we're busy with student life and we're in different rooms, can't even talk as well as we used to. I really miss the bonding and teasing we used to have until something happened that made our ways and thoughts change. However, few months passed by after I got to know her side that led things better.
Fast forward, we attended her birthday celebration since she invited me and . At first, I was shocked because I didn't expect that she invited us. It's not that I don't want to see her, it's because I'm shy for the reason that during the times when she was having a hard time, I wasn't always by her side, so I was really surprised by the invitation. However, I thought that this was also a way to restore our old relationship since what happened to us wasn't worse. Nothing physical, only we didn't talk much at that time and now it's time to rebuild our friendship in a better and more stable way.
On the day of her celebration, we went at 3 pm since that's what she said, but when we got there she said it was just a joke because it doesn't start at 3. But still glad because we were able to talk with her while she was already putting on her makeup and getting what she was going to wear ready. Later on, Anthonia, our classmate from grade 10 arrived, we were super happy because we met again and had fun.Now that everything was ready, we proceeded to our table to begin the celebration. First of all, of course, there was a prayer led by the emcee, after which his parents sent a message, then we ate before proceeding with the others, there were also games, 18th candles and 18th roses.
I already prepared my speech because I'm one of the 18th candles , I felt a little nervous but luckily I told her everything, how I felt and the best wishes I wanted her to achieve. It was the time that I was able to hug her again after I gave my speech. I felt so lightened after realizing that everything now was okay, it finally become clear despite what happened before. But I don't wanna go back, what's important now is the future and how we improve and strengthen the friendship we built.
Challenges test the foundation of any friendship, exposing its true strength and the power of commitment that are being shared between friends. Overcoming these difficulties successfully builds a stronger, more memorable bond, proving the sustained strength of genuine connection. And I'm so glad that no matter how my friend and I separated ways, the path still crossed us and found our way back to each other.