Hello dear family, it is a pleasure for me to write again in this beautiful community of family and friends. Today I want to touch on a very important topic, which over time has been lost, such as friendship, or being friends. I also give importance to the existence of friendship since the creation of the world with the friendship between Adam and Eve, who began as great friends and then became a couple hehe.*
Podemos definir la amistad como ese lazo afectivo existente entre personas, ya sean del mismo sexo o heterosexuales que se distingue por existir ente ellos apoyo, cariño, respeto y confianza. Pero veamos que nos dice la Real Academia Española acerca de este término: Afecto personal, puro y desinteresado, compartido con otra persona, que nace y se fortalece con el trato. Como podemos ver es un concepto demasiado hermoso para ser real jejeje.
We can define friendship as that emotional bond existing between people, whether of the same sex or heterosexual, which is distinguished by the existence of support, affection, respect and trust between them. But let's see what the Royal Spanish Academy tells us about this term: Personal, pure and selfless affection, shared with another person, which is born and strengthened by treatment. As we can see, it is a concept too beautiful to be real, hehe.
Pero como el que escribe debe hablara con propiedad jeje, pues les cuento que mi hijo tiene un grupo de amigos que esos si son amigos pero de verdad. Están juntos desde niños, nos conocemos los padres, estudiaron juntos desde preescolar hasta como llamamos acá en Venezuela Diversificado, se graduaron juntos y todavía siguen juntos jeje es impresionante como todos estos chicos si tienen claro lo que es una verdadera amistad.
But since the writer must speak with propriety hehe, I tell you that my son has a group of friends that are friends but for real. They have been together since they were children, we know each other's parents, they studied together from preschool to what we call here in Venezuela Diversificado, they graduated together and they are still together hehe it is impressive how all these kids are clear about what a true friendship is.
Lo impresionante es que no se separan, si uno de ellos tiene problemas todo el grupo apoya, si necesitan dinero, se prestan, se regalan, de verdad que para mi ese si es un gran ejemplo de amistad muy poco conocidos al menos para mi. Hace un poco mas de un mes mi hijo tuvo un accidente en su moto y pues todos corrieron a ayudarlo, lo venían a visitar a la asa casi todos los días, un día les dije a no, ustedes vayan y le hacen la cena jajaja porque tenia que atenderlos a ellos y a mi hijo.
The amazing thing is that they don't separate, if one of them has problems the whole group supports them, if they need money, they lend each other money, they give each other gifts, really for me that is a great example of friendship that is very little known, at least for me. A little over a month ago my son had an accident on his motorcycle and everyone ran to help him, they came to visit him at home almost every day, one day I told them no, you guys go and make him dinner hahaha because I had to take care of them and my son.
Si ha existido entre ellos diferencias, pero a pesar de no ser tan adultos han aprendido a solventar cualquier situación, creo que tienen una coraza entre ellos que no permite que nada los separe, el amor, respeto, compañerismo y una buena comunicación hacen de la verdadera amistad un puente necesario que hay que pasar para lograrlo.
There have been differences between them, but despite not being adults, they have learned to solve any situation. I think they have a shell between them that does not allow anything to separate them. Love, respect, companionship and good communication make true friendship a necessary bridge that must be crossed to achieve it.
Considero que parte de todos estos valores y principios se aprenden en el hogar, es en la familia donde se deben enseñar, porque la familia es la base fundamental de toda sociedad, una sociedad sin valores es una sociedad en decadencia, es por eso que se hace necesario volver a la senda antigua creo que la familia de mi época se dedicaban mas a la enseñanza de estos principios que a estar sumergidos en la redes sociales que hoy en día han distorsionado estas enseñanzas.
I believe that part of all these values and principles are learned at home, it is in the family where they should be taught, because the family is the fundamental basis of every society, a society without values is a society in decline, that is why it is necessary to return to the old path. I believe that the family of my time was more dedicated to teaching these principles than to being immersed in social networks that today have distorted these teachings.
Mi llamado es para nosotros como familia, a enseñar desde casa, y así veremos una sociedad de relevo con valores y principios tanto espirituales como seculares. Dejando que Dios sea el centro de nuestras familias. Leer la Biblia uno de los mejores libros que no pasan de moda, ese libro es un manual de vida necesario para enaltecer el nombre de Dios de de nuestro hogar.
My call is for us as a family to teach from home, and thus we will see a society of relief with values and principles both spiritual and secular. Letting God be the center of our families. Reading the Bible is one of the best books that never goes out of style, that book is a necessary life manual to exalt the name of God in our home.
Thank you for reading me. Blessings to all.