I agreed to you that our children are the lights in our life's. They are the reason that we work hard for there future but let us also prioritized our relationship with our spouse. Children would grow up, finished college have a job and leave home. Only you and your spouse would be leave home. So make many memories together so that you both have many memories to look back when you are both old and gray.
RE: I recommend not skipping the stage of going out alone with your husbands//La etapa de salir a solas con sus esposos recomiendo no saltársela[ENG/ESP]