Cousins are those playmates from childhood who have remained close throughout their lives.
Your relationship with your relative is unique. Your cousins have been there for you each step of the way. They are always there for you when you need them.
I can recall my cousins, and I back then playing on the sidewalk. We were always together when we were young, even before gadgets existed.
But as time passes, we struggle to find time for each other and have fun as many of us begin to study in college. Most of us now place a higher priority on our more extensive obligations as providers to our families.
We make many arrangements, but due to our busy schedules, many end up falling through, so we must make a concerted effort to accommodate dates and times.
But the past weekend, we finally had the time to enjoy ourselves.
We seized the opportunity to visit one of our favorite spots in our community. The stunning Azurin resort in San Narciso Zambales is perfect for a picnic.
When you go there, you will be astounded by the stream's crystal-clear water. You can have fun on the water or stay in a nipa hut. It has a kitchen, a bathroom, and a comfortable area to unwind and have endless fun.
We decided on setting the table while prepping because some of us were cooking the food in the cooking area. After cooking, we set out our meal in boodle-fight fashion. We were impressed with the arrangement we created together after that.
Eating is a pleasure since it causes us to reflect on the past and laugh heartily as we recall our memorable and enjoyable experiences.
I then came to several realizations on why my cousins are my best friends:
They've been in my life for a very long time.
You may relive many experiences with your cousins, such as playing when you were in diapers and getting engaged. You would stay in touch and visit each other's families for the holidays even if you didn't live nearby. Their regular presence in your life will give you a sense of security.
I can be who I am around them.
They know who you are and where you come from because they grew up with you. Since you already know they would accept and adore you for who you are, there is no need to try to impress them. Instead, you can be yourself with them.
I look forward to our family get-togethers because of them.
You enjoy spending time with your family members at events because you get to catch up. You can always rely on their company whether you want to play hide-and-seek or discuss your hobbies or jobs. The inside jokes and shared experiences will make your time together much more enjoyable.
They have always been there for me.
In both good and bad times, your family will stand by you. Even if you live far apart and sometimes go weeks without communicating, your cousins will always lend a helping hand if you need it. Your mutual respect for one another will safeguard the continuity of your family.
A relative serves a range of roles in a person's life over time. They'll be a confidante, a lifelong buddy, a groomsman or bridesmaid, and a partner in crime.
To assist your children in establishing a connection that will sustain them through various periods of their lives, encourage them to keep in touch and spend time with their relatives. Their cousins will always be a valuable part of their youth, which makes this friendship even more lovely. Years from now, when they swing back and forth, they'll still be giggling at the trick they previously played on you or the secrets they revealed during the holidays.
And here is my Quatro, my adorable dog, who has been a member of our family ever since.
My cousins are more like my best friends for life, so I will always treasure them.
"Cousins are not people we do not know; rather, they are a supportive and comforting family member."