In this post , I will talk about my husband Thomas, with whom I have had a super beautiful relationship for 14 years and thanks to all this feeling, two beautiful children have blossomed, my little Thomasito and Gabriel.
Love is a little seed that is implanted in the heart of that loved one, but it needs care and dedication so that it grows, becomes stronger and bears many fruits.
Between my husband (Thomas) and I there has always been detail, understanding and mutual help and that has helped us a lot to unite more and more every day
We have thought and learned over time that being married is more than being a friend, a partner or a confidante
Love and affection are not only expressed with words, there are also good moments, actions, gestures that are made for each other and that between my husband and I has been very successful.
We have many favorite memories and I think that if I dedicate myself to counting them in this publication I would never finish publishing hehehehe
The truth is that he is a good companion, responsible, funny, crazy, very happy and responsible
Mostly or almost always we go out with the children to have fun as a family but sometimes we take a little getaway where it's just him and me..
I remember one of the many days where we went out to buy coffee and sugar for the store on the block and my cousin is at home.
Suddenly he kept driving and we ended up at Juan Greco's castle on the other side of the island of Margarita watching the sunset.
Another of the memories we have had is one day we went out to buy food for my little fish that I have at home and we ended up on a night out for the children eating ice cream, milkshakes and much more.
Another of the funny moments I remember that at the carnival last year I had a sprained left foot and it was time to see the floats but I couldn't walk so he got on a horse and to go down to see the floats but When the zamba bands came by he would dance to me and shout that I am the love of his life heheheheh I was sorry for the shouts he made in the street shouting that he was my dancing girl,
What have you learned from your relationship? How do you handle disagreements?
This question is very funny because I am a person with a very strong character but with my husband I have learned to have patience, good communication,
I have learned that every relationship has ups and downs.
I have learned not only to be his wife, I also learned to be his friend, his confidante, his counselor,
I have learned to manage my character and no matter how annoying this breath is, I look and I remember that he is the partner that I chose and I want him for life.
With him I have learned that to have a good relationship you just have to have good communication, respect, and self-worth for each other.
What do you do to keep the spark alive in your relationship?
We have many things in common, and one of them is that we are young. Active, and we always have a lot of fun together, we love to have details for each other.
We make a family circle where we ask ourselves what we like and what we don't like.
We always keep the privilege of family, we stick together
Every important date in our home we celebrate with a special dinner where our children participate.
We take some time for the two of us alone.
We make plans for the future.
We set goals.
When I have the opportunity to ask him out I write him a letter with the address, the time and the day of the appointment hahahahaha I put it in his lunch bag when he goes to work.
He gives me flowers that he gets along the way and that makes me happy with his ideas.
When I get angry with him and argue he always tells me... just the same I love you my grumpy black hugs me and kisses me. That is very gratifying. See all the anger passes and then we laugh because he imitates me and he tells me everything I tell him hehehehehehehe.
We always keep in touch, although we have been together for 14 years, sharing every bit of our lives, we always try not to lose interest in each other.
We try to have alone moments just for two,
We also share with friends, family and neighbors, where the routine is lost and we can renew activities for ourselves.
We share everything, he puts on my clothes and I put on his.
How do you keep communication open and honest?
Learning that we are young and have never had other partners, we always communicate a lot and have learned from other people's mistakes
Despite the fact that we are a bit inexperienced when it comes to having partners, we are very honest with each other, we take on commitments with a lot of responsibilities.
We are fortunate to have good older friends who give us a lot of advice regarding the relationship as a couple.
The truth is that they have helped us a lot with their advice and that is a blessing.