Why can't men eat what they dish out? I mean almost every time you hear of men who cheated on their wives and at the end even got the lady in question pregnant and some even go as far as marrying that same lady all in the name of is a "MANS WORLD" and at the end all we can do is sympathise with the lady at home, you'll hear people telling her to move on from it, forgive and make sure she holds her home together.
It's so sad how our society this days have come to accept men cheating on their spouses as a normal thing, if you're not too careful, people might even start poking holes at the lady, you start to hear questions like, how does the wife look? Does she have a big bum? Are her boobs big? Was she too fat? Is she too slim? Is she too dark? Maybe he prefers light skinned ladies, making up countless excuses to justify the man cheating.
Have also seen in most cases, the victim which is the wife who's been cheated on starts to blame herself for not looking beautiful enough, for not having bigger assets to entice him, for not been sexy enough to keep him, and after all this she starts to feel sorry for herself and wish she hadn't gotten married but with the way society is now, she can't leave the marriage no! That's when you'll hear from your family members saying " na cheating wan make her leave her marriage?" " She wasn't ready to be married in the first place". After all has been said the woman in question gradually slips into depression all the while dying inside. It's what my Nigerian people call "SUFFERING AND SMILING " and maybe just maybe the lady eventually gets to get over the whole cheating saga but with an already scarred heart she decides to forge ahead and let bygones be bygones, then the man now says "oh she'll forgive me it's not like she has anywhere she's going to " and he cheats again and again, it then becomes this vicious circle that even the lady can no longer control.
I have a married male friend who once told me that his wife caught him cheating one time and that all she did was cry and cry and asked for her forgiveness and she forgave him and this same man still went ahead to cheat again saying it's not his fault that it's their nature like can you imagine 😅? And that as a wife all you should be doing is praying that if your husband goes out to do any funny business that God should always make sure he comes back to you 😂😂😂 I was so angry and I can tell you that our conversation that day didn't end well.
Why I'm I saying all this, I heard of a man today who got cheated on by his wife abroad, you guys needed to have seen that video 😂 he was so pained!!! Like you could tell that his wife cheating on him really broke him emotionally. And this is something our society has come to accept as the new norm for some of our male folks, infact the spouse (the wife) is supposed to be the glue to hold the family together after all the man's shenanigans 😂 let me continue my story
At first all I felt at the time was anger towards the lady in question and pity for the man, until I heard the man say " where you not the one begging me for sex how many days ago?" Then I paused and thought about the whole thing, obviously I do not leave with them but for your wife to continuously be begging you for sex and everytime you refused that means you might have been getting it somewhere, to cut the long story short I heard the man too cheated on the wife, not like I'm trying to justify either of their actions because both parties this time around are wrong but just want to let you guys know men can never ever eat what they dish out.
As for the couple I pray they sought out their differences with out hurting each other physically.