I’m not going to say there is good and evil but sometimes the universe plays tricks on us to see how we will respond to it. When this happens we need to channel our mindset into seeing the bigger picture and not cloud our mind because things didn’t go the way we had wanted or planned. Every day of our lives, we engage in plans and decisions to attain a sense of certainty.
During my NYSC, I conducted a thorough check to have a direct say in where I would be posted. It's a common practice among individuals, as they desire assurance regarding their posting location. So, I took measures to ensure a favorable outcome. I informed my family, and they connected with someone who assured us that I would be posted to a specific state. I had faith and kept my mind free from doubt. A few weeks later, my colleagues notified me that the posting was out, and I should check to see where I had been assigned.
Surprised, I logged onto the portal to check my posting. The shock that overwhelmed my face couldn't be put into words. I wasn't posted to my preferred state; instead, I was sent far from home. I immediately alerted my family about the new development, and they shared in my shock. They asked how I felt, and honestly, at that moment, I felt somewhat resigned. Like I couldn't change things, I only had to move forward and adapt. Yeah, it changed my plan, but I didn't dwell. Looking back, I'm still amazed at how I managed to focus on the present. The day came for me to head to camp, and I linked up with others who would be traveling with me. They were nice people, and we treated each other right. As we traveled, this group of people calmed my mind, reassuring me that there was nothing to worry about.
I had a slow start in camp; I was trying to get to know things and people. I remember for the first few days, I was only moving with a guy, doing things together. I couldn’t mix well with others and stuff. I was adapting at a slow rate, it was still very weird to me. After a while, I picked up, and I was having fun - meeting people, talking, sharing ideas, and having deep discussions. In three weeks, I met two ladies, and we were close.
I joined the drama and dancing crew, and it was fun. We did well, and I enjoyed my time in camp. In hindsight, that wasn't the camp I wanted; things happened, but I moved past it. All I did was change my mindset. I wanted certainty, then I got uncertainty. I embraced it and enjoyed my 21 days camping. If I hadn't, I may not have enjoyed the camp.
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