Buried the truth with sympathy

Family is the most important thing, and in a single family, trust between partners plays a significant role. When trust is shaken, the family situation becomes critical. It can happen because of a misunderstanding, or else someone chooses to cheat on their partner. Whatever the reason, many times, we can't understand who the real culprit is.

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Let me share an incident from a recent time. The incident became serious, and one person was almost about to commit suicide. Fortunately, some of us were present and did not allow anything to happen. Let me share the incident. The incident occurred with one of my close relatives (from the male partner's side). I am calling the husband's name Aladdin.

Aladdin is a driver and works under a bank office. There are 3 members in his family, including their little son (age 6 years). For several reasons, the quarreling between Aladdin and his wife occurred, and their parents and relatives used to solve their issues. The problem between them was the trust issue. None of us expected such an issue between them because their marriage was a love marriage. Aladdin needs to spend most of the time outside, and during the time of work, he didn't pick up any calls for security reasons, and that's normal. That's the thing that made his wife realize he was ignoring her, and when it was happening again and again, the quarrel was between the outcome. In terms of financial perspective, Aladdin was taking care of everything, and he was fulfilling all the responsibilities as a father also.

My parents, relatives, and his wife's relatives need to be involved in this case again and try to solve the issue, but somehow they manage to stop their quarrel only. The next day I also want you to bring the little kids with me to my family because my parents thought it was not a good environment for that kid, and I also agree with it. I didn't know too much about what was happening because I don't like to know other's personal lives. Reaching there, I saw their relatives were present, and they started to quarrel. Aladdin felt humiliated in front of everyone for his action, and he run into a room and locked the door. In such a situation, we all knew what was going to happen at least we can guess it by watching movies. It's suicide. There were only 2 male person ( including me) and both of us broke the lock using our physical force, and I saw Aladdin was almost about to hanging using a rope with a fan. I think if we were 6-10 seconds late, he might be successful in doing it. Fortunately, our reaction time was quite fast.

All the relatives are almost about to cry. I think I am the only one who had almost no feeling to see such an incident. I thought that I had only seen movie scenes it was my first real-life experience. Maybe it's because I have an iron heart and I am not so emotional.

Everyone was blaming his wife for doubting Aladdin, and it was quite reasonable also. For that reason, Aladdin was almost about to lose his life. For safety, my parents told me to bring Aladdin to our home with me as nobody knows if he would do something reckless again. Instead of it, Aladdin's wife threatened him and said she would make a case in the police station. You must be thinking about what kind of wife she is. But the real mystery unfolds from there.

His wife was ready to take legal action. Coming to my home, I was busy with my task. Aladdin was not so good from a technological perspective. So he asked me how to delete chat history and some other things permanently. I was quite surprised because while I was showing that, I read some conversations. And I understood it quite well. There is something wrong. I have the ability to remember everything that I hear in sleep. Aladdin talked with another woman and discussed the situation and possible outcome when I was in sleep and I got the key information in my sleeping time. Aladdin was in an affair with that woman and spending time with her and somehow his wife figured it out. So she was confirmed about the affair and that's the reason of the quarrel. So Aladdin was reasonable for everything, but unfortunately, everybody was blaming his wife, who was innocent.

Everyone wondered why he would try to take his own life if he did wrong. The reason of trying to commit suicide was clear and it was humiliation. So it means most of us judge a situation based on emotions without knowing the real reason. Even his wife's family also took the side of him. I felt how ridiculous it was. I knew the truth, and I said it to my parents and they refused to believe it. What more can I say because my words had no impact on the incident? Moreover, saying that nothing could be fixed. I didn't blame my parents for not believing my words because they were from the side of Aladdin. Why would they believe that when the parents of Aladdin's wife were also not ready to believe the word of their daughter? Maybe Aladdin was going to act and take the sympathy and hide his reality. I am the one who knows the truth with no evidence. But the truth is the thing which will come out someday. But for the current time, it was covered with sympathy. It's not right and I think we need to change our perspective to judge a situation