True. I don't enjoy saying sorry just because I want peace to reign. I enjoy peace, but I want to earn that peace and it is usually earned by being capable of facing situations head-on to call out disgusting behaviors especially when it's being done by people who I associate with regularly.
Some of those people I onboarded messed up the opportunity and everything I did would have been a wasted effort. Thankfully, there are a few of the people I onboarded and they have been thriving.
RE: The pattern that my apology follows...