Life may give you many options when it comes to decision making, but one day you have to face a difficult situation of whether to choose between letting go and giving up. Are you letting go or giving up?
Let go, when there is no more spark and
Enthusiasm in your relationship.
This may be a very tough decision to make yet if
The action could bring you a peaceful mind then
It is the right decision that leads you to progress.
Never ever mind of the opinions of others.
Go forth freely with a brave heart.
Give yourself more time to carry on
Or else you would end up suffering.
Give up, when you are too weak in a relationship.
It is a matter of rejecting things that
Violently harms your
Emotional, mental, and physical well-being.
Unite with your very own self and
Persevere for more of self-love that you truly deserve.
But, are you letting go or giving up?
When it comes to love, between letting go and giving up, letting go connotes a positive attitude in which you are taking away of something that is not beyond your control, and it would always depend upon the situation. On the other hand, giving up connotes a negative attitude in which you are already surrendering something that you cannot fight for.
Personally, I have both experienced letting go and giving up on my past relationship. The decision was so tough that I have cried an ocean of tears yet I am in favor of thinking on the brighter side of life to move on and carry on come what may.
It is not all about a weaker self but it was because of the reason that I am very much exhausted and tired of what is happening all around my life, so I really have to let go and give up in order to attain inner peace, and to end up my agony as well. I realized that I need to have pity for my suffering self, and that I really have to love myself more.
Remember that we all deserve self-love. When we either let go or give up in a relationship, it does not always mean that we do not love him or her anymore, but every so often, there are really times that despite having persistence and endurance, we just simply end up everything in a blink of time, most especially when we cannot carry on, yet with great hopes that all with be alright in the right time.
In a relationship, the number of years and time spent together before marriage does not really matter. Although it really takes time to know your partner very well. However, there are also relationships, only spent a few times before marriage, and end up being successful together. I firmly believe that a strong commitment is an important ingredient. When this fades away, no one could stand up until the end.
I have known a friend, an artist and a live streamer, I met in an online community. After meeting him for a long time, he confessed to me that he was previously in a long-term relationship for more than ten years yet end up broke about two years ago.
As he said, he already thought the she was the one. They have been together since college days but two years ago, after being ten years in a relationship, they did not end up into marriage, but have decided both to let go and give up on the relationship. He may fail to give me the specific reason but he told me that they have to fix things for each other in life for things are not working as what has planned, and that this was something not beyond their control, so they really have to part ways.
There was one time when we joined video call together in an online streaming community, his past love was there, although he felt quite embarrassed, he had no choice, but to handle the situation with grace, for the girl was also working for the streaming community being on the development team, and was suddenly invited to be a guest. So, I was just smiling when their friends were teasing at them. I have not spoken up a word and just respected them and their decision as well.
Another painful life story I have witnessed was being in marriage for more than twenty years with many kids but then ended up for good. As we know that all things in life are uncertain, there is truly a need to accept life as it is. It may be very difficult, yet whether we like it or not, we need to realize that every life story is either happiness or despair.
But then, things are not so easy as what others may perceive it. Things are not so easy to fix when you both know about what had happened yesterday. Both partners have already endured a lot in their relationship before, and I know that it takes more time for the wounds and stitches to heal. Perhaps only time could mend a broken heart.
In conclusion, there is no such thing as perfect relationship. In as much as we would love to see perfection in social media when it comes to love, but in a real world, love is a bitter sweet taste of happiness, sorrow, and pain. But the decision always lies in your hand of how to handle a tough situation. And now, how is your relationship with your special someone? Are you letting go or giving up?
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