Not everyone can carry the same load of multitasking. Not everyone is as strong as someone who can carry much baggage in one go. Neither one has the assurance of an equivalent outcome, even with the same effort and method. Not everyone can cope easily when faced with heart-shattering challenges and unforeseen incidents along the way. With all the unsolicited happenings that one has to face, a certain outbreak of emotions can be felt in one setting. An outburst of ravaging feelings that may cause that individual to reach rock bottom. With the imbalance of the mind and emotion, even simple things can create a great impact that is unfavorable to the bearer. It may occur in different kinds, but the weight of each load is exceptionally the same.
This is one of the occasions when the letters of the human alphabet cannot fathom the pain one is holding onto. Such circumstances, which one had least expected to occur in life, may shatter the confidence and peace that they have been building. More so, if worse comes to worse, these events can bring great remorse because they have taken away something that is important and can change someone’s life perspective and attitude. A certain abyss starts to emerge that starts to hurt even without the slightest contact with physical force.
The more you try to understand why it happened, the more critical you become and meticulous in every detail prior to that event. One may rely on human reason to justify and philosophize why it occurred, but it cannot escape the innate human behavior of leaning to its feelings, which is a great factor that can affect its reality. One may observe the philosophy of stoicism to secure sanity and be able to escape the burden of doubt and suffering from what has happened. However, in a third person’s view, the belief in such practice is only seen by that person’s actions, and a certain view has no grounds for really knowing what that person is truly thinking. For which we should take note that human senses can be deceiving at times and need to be validated.
Each individual has his or her own set of drawbacks that he or she gets to encounter during the course of life. It may be foreseen or unpredictable, but one thing is for sure: it will come. These instances aforementioned above are also the times when people try to fill in our shoes and try to confront us on what to do best with our situation or boast about how easy it is for them to handle. However, when being put in the same shoes, some even lose themselves and try to blame others for what they have become or are being put into. As humans are given different struggles and upbringings, no one is for sure an expert on something that they haven't yet encountered with the same amount of pressure and heaviness of the situation. So, what should one do next? Where should one resort and hold on to? Where should one rely or seek out strength? One cannot dictate or have a concrete answer for one.