Going to school doesn't grantee that you are streetwise, you are an expert in relationships, you are a fashionist, you can dive into situations and come out whole, it doesn't mean the whole piece have finally come together, it just means you have lay a foundation on which other things can build on, during my secondary school days I saw going to school as the only solution one needs in life to open all doors answer all questions and solve all problems, but life played a fast one on me and that am about to share.
Well for those that haven't been with us for awhile this is Hivestudents week 34 and welcome to this page I still remain your favorite host, coming back to the shege that life use my eyes to see I am talking about my first relationship experience how because it was my first love experience i really acted childish, thinking about it now I would be like why was I that foolish and childish, I grew up into a phase I wasn't ready for but anticipated it because I thought it was fun to be a grown up not to meet up responsibilities that seemed like a heavy load to carry.
I didn't know that keeping up with everyone expectations of you wasn't as simple as it sounds, I thought it was easy having lots of people around you and caring for all of them but what I didn't know is that it takes intentionality, lots of care and genuine love to want to do all of that and they don't eventually teach such lessons in school. Sometimes I would be in a situation where I can't even find solutions or remedy from anywhere and looking at this prompt now it's more like if only we were given a hint or even taught about days like this that comes with storms, just maybe I wouldn't be this confused and lot.
There was a time I went to the bank and it happened that I picked a day when both salary earners with people that had billions of problem came to resolve it, so I had to join cues for hours standing under the scorching sun before I could even get the chance to enter the bank and when I eventually do the main reason that brought me wasn't accomplished as the bank was having issues with their system, as I was stepping out I was so filled with anger and I felt like just shouting at everybody there, I had imagined the patience I had to mount up in the line just to get Inside and be disappointed.
My point exactly is that life holds alot and we definitely would face it in one way or the other but if only we were taught about this little little things that matters just maybe we would have reacted to them more better, thank you all for staying till the end I wish you a wonderful weekend.
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