Good day, people of Hive! Welcome to my blog. Today's topic is from Hive Student Connect which is:Campus Life. So let's dive in.
Before I gained admission into the university, I heard many things about campus life. A lot of people used to say that university life is where students finally get the freedom to do whatever they want, especially the things they couldn't do while living with their parents. People talked about parties, clubs, outings with friends, and enjoying life without anyone monitoring them.
To be honest, hearing all those things made me very excited. I was looking forward to that freedom. In fact, I already planned some things in my mind. I told myself that when I enter the university, I will go to clubs and parties because I wanted to experience it. I also thought I would travel around and just enjoy the freedom of being a student. But when I finally gained admission, I realized that campus life was not exactly the way people described it.
The reality was very different from what I imagined. School life came with many responsibilities. There were lectures to attend, impromptu tests that we were not informed to get ready, assignment deadlines, presentations, tests to write, and exams. Sometimes I go to school very early in the morning and come back late in the evening, which can be very stressful sometimes.
Funny enough, me that said I would always go to clubs and parties has never even stepped into one from my 100 level till now that I am in my final year.
In my department, there are times when we are asked to contribute money for outings like picnics or trips to Mount Patti. I have never contributed before because I already know I won't go. So why should I pay for something I won't attend? The only time I attend departmental programs is when the program is held inside the school premises and must be during lecture hours. If they fix it on a day when we don't have lectures, I usually don't go. Because of this, some of my friends always question me. Sometimes they ask me why I am different. They are like, since we are already in our final year, I should try to enjoy campus life more. But honestly, I didn't really listen to them.
I think the reason is because I am already used to living this way. From my 100 level till now, I have always been like this. Sometimes I sit down and ask myself why I am different from many other students. At first, I thought I would do anything I wanted in school since nobody was there to monitor me.
But when I got to school, I realized that I preferred living a quiet and simple life. Maybe it is because of how I was raised. I have always tried to avoid doing things that might bring shame to my family. Because of that, I try to be careful with my decisions and the kind of places I go.
The funniest part is that one of my friends lives not far from my house, yet I have never said I should find time to visit her, and that always pains her. It's not that I don't want to visit her, but you know that is the way my late grandma raised us. She never liked us going to other people's houses. If you tell her you want to visit a friend, she won't even give you the opportunity.
Even though campus life did not turn out the way I imagined, it has still taught me many things. University life can be stressful, but it also teaches responsibility and how to handle different things at the same time. To be honest, campus life is not as easy as people think because school work alone can be very hectic. But everyone experiences it differently.
For me, I will say campus life is a little exaggerated because many people only talk about the fun side and forget to mention the stress and responsibilities that come with it which some people don't know off.
In conclusion, right now I am just happy that in a few months I will graduate because the stress and wahala of school life is not small. Still, I am grateful for the experience and the lessons it has taught me.
This is my entry for the Hive Student Connect New Prompt Week 33.
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