Hello friends,how r u all?I wish all my friends are well.i am also well. Today I sear my abroad life talk with all my friends.now let's go and watching my vlog.
We who come out of the country have their own purpose. The sky is the limit between one's own country, one's homeland, one's country's soil and one's expatriate life.
In expatriate life, whether you walk on the street or go for a walk or work in an office, everyone else will prove that you are an expatriate everywhere.
Either by paying more attention, or by highlighting the difference between their language and yours. Yes, that's right! But we also want to be normal, to walk with everyone, to talk.
The language problem is one of the first problems we face in exile. For this I want to become proficient in the language of the country where you are.
But it is very difficult for a full grown adult. One can learn as much as one needs to run on one's own. That is why there is a big linguistic gap.
Then there is the problem of chess. We Bengalis are accustomed to eating rice, pulses, fish and fresh Bengali vegetables cooked with mother's tenderness.
Instead, no matter how good the food is in any country, it doesn't feel good after a few days.
Abroad, everyone has to fight with the mind to adapt to the traditional food of that country. Still moving, friend-friendly is another reality.
Then it can be said about friendship. I think the definition of friendship is different from all other countries of the world from what we Bengalis understand, what we know, the picture that floats in our minds.
We go out with friends, hang out, hang out, sit in a tea shop or playground or in the market or in a place of our choice in the evening, laugh and joke, pass the time on our way home to talk.
Because no one remembers the time. Even after so many things, the expatriates accept everything with a smile because all the expatriates choose to live abroad with a dream.
Then when the people in the family talk or write a letter, how are you, don't worry, we are fine, any problem or solution of the problem at home, whether the food and drink are going well.
Some people often argue, argue, and complain. I think many people in the country (at least those who have no experience in expatriate life) do not understand the state of mind of an expatriate, his loneliness, his emotions, his suffering, his indifference, his silent cries.
It is true that it is not possible for them to feel these feelings. Expatriates feel these more in expatriate life.
No one suffers in the life of expatriates, because relatives are needed to grieve. No one can grieve except your loved ones.
Expatriate life is such that there is no sorrow in this life. But expatriate life partner is hardship and it sticks in such a way that I do not want to leave.
The huge gap between sorrow and suffering cannot be felt by anyone else like the expatriates. Whatever the expatriates gain in exile, be it money or education, is nothing but the fruit of his indescribable hardships.
We request you, those who are in the country and friends or relatives or sons and daughters or husband and wife to try to understand the pain, feelings, anguish, silent tears of the expatriates through everything. Keep them away from loneliness as much as possible, try to keep them to yourself as much as possible.
No more today.anything false with my talk pls forgive me all my friends.Allah hafez.
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