La soberbia es esa rabia que nos produce algún evento y ante la cual tratamos con indiferencia, arrogancia y hasta altanería al causante de ese dolor.

Pero el asunto es que tienden a etiquetarte como una persona llena de soberbia para justificar sus acciones y dejando a un lado lo que te hacen, ahora evadiendo y centrándose en que tu no les tratas o los irrespetas.

A veces me pregunto por qué preferimos echarle la culpa a los demás antes de asumir cuando somos nosotros quienes cometemos errores, para mi familia yo soy el que está lleno de soberbia.

Hello Hive Community, there are people who at some point come to tell us that we are full of pride, without being able to look in a mirror or think about why we react as we do.

Pride is that rage that produces us some event and before which we treat with indifference, arrogance and even haughtiness to the cause of that pain.

But the thing is that they tend to label you as a person full of pride to justify their actions and leaving aside what they do to you, now evading and focusing on you not treating them or disrespecting them.

Sometimes I wonder why we prefer to blame others before assuming when we are the ones who make mistakes, for my family I am the one full of pride.

En mi familia he vivido muchas situaciones que me han causado profundo dolor pero como reacciono bruscamente con arrogancia para ocultar mi dolor, pues simplemente se dedican a considerarme un ser soberbio.

Admito que lo he sido y que aunque estoy claro que no es la mejor manera de actuar, lamentablemente mi familia no es capaz de ver si ellos me han lastimado o no.

Siempre quedo como el malo de la partida porque les planteo formas distintas de hacer las cosas, las cuales no les gusta.

Y es que a la mayoría no nos agrada que nos digan la verdad, pues en mi familia materna ocultar la realidad es parte de la dinámica y la comunicación que desde pequeño me han mostrado

In life criticism is part of everyday life, we always find people who judge others without looking at themselves.

In my family I have lived through many situations that have caused me deep pain but as I react sharply with arrogance to hide my pain, they simply consider me to be arrogant.

I admit that I have been and that although I am clear that it is not the best way to act, unfortunately my family is not able to see if they have hurt me or not.

I always come off as the bad guy in the game because I bring up different ways of doing things, which they don't like.

And most of us do not like to be told the truth, because in my maternal family hiding reality is part of the dynamics and communication that I have been shown since I was a child.

Que prefiere esconder sus sentimientos porque no vale la pena detenerse y mostrárselo a quienes evidentemente no les importa

Antes de casarme, era una persona mal encarada y siempre molesta hasta que mi esposa y mi hijo me mostraron otra forma de ver el mundo, pero aun así la etiqueta de la soberbia en mi casa materna la tienen destinada para mi

Soy soberbio por no caer en las manipulaciones de otros, por querer las cosas bien hechas y claras, por ser capaz de así no les guste emitir mi opinión.

La soberbia causa mas daño que beneficios por eso yo con la familia que he formado logre salir de ese ciclo vicioso donde esta era la mejor respuesta.

La soberbia refiere una relación de superioridad e inferioridad pero aunque yo no la sienta así, mis familiares si lo sienten de esa forma y por eso me etiquetan.

Hay que establecer límites ante la soberbia y ante las personas que en su toxicidad juzgan sin realmente querer resolver los problemas, porque es más fácil culpar a otros.

Behind the person with pride hides a person filled with pain, sad and who feels deeply hurt.

Who prefers to hide his feelings because it is not worth it to stop and show it to those who obviously do not care.

Before I got married, I was a foul-mouthed and always annoying person until my wife and my son showed me another way of seeing the world, but still the label of arrogance in my mother's house is destined for me.

I am arrogant for not falling into the manipulations of others, for wanting things well done and clear, for being able to even if they do not like to issue my opinion.

Proudness causes more harm than good, that's why with the family I have formed I managed to get out of that vicious cycle where this was the best answer.

Pride refers to a relationship of superiority and inferiority but although I do not feel it that way, my family members do feel it that way and that is why they label me.

It is necessary to establish limits to pride and to people who in their toxicity judge without really wanting to solve problems, because it is easier to blame others.

Thank you for reading my post and joining me in this catharsis.

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